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Marriage and the Bible VI
[posted 4/21/18]
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Question #1:
[Troubled by internet teaching that second marriage is considered a continuing state of adultery]
Response #1:
Good to make your acquaintance. This is a very common question, and let
me start right away by advising you not to seek a divorce from your
present spouse. As you correctly conclude, that would be terribly unfair
and damaging to your husband and child, not to mention yourself.
People who say that being "wrongly married" is "living in adultery" have
no true scriptural basis for doing so. What they have is misplaced
guilt. Misplaced guilt is one of the devil's favorite weapons and he and
those under his sway use it like a hammer on anyone whose faith is at
all wobbly on any point of truth.
We live in a fairly libertine society, so it is very easy for anyone to
indulge and engage in any manner of sinful activities as well as to make
all manner of bad decisions which weren't even possible a few hundred
years ago. So we have all done "dumb things" and most of us have done
"bad things"; therefore we all have things we might easily be made to
feel guilty about. But here is what I read in scripture:
If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
1st John 1:9 NKJV
So if we have sinned, when we repent (true biblical repentance which
simply means recognizing in our hearts that we were wrong and turning
our backs on that wrong behavior) and then confess to the Lord in a
simple prayer (no "penance" because that would be us working for it
instead of acknowledging that Christ paid for it), then in each and
every case He forgives us our sin AND cleanses us "from all
unrighteousness". So if we are fretting or worrying about anything we
may have done in the past, confessing it to the Lord and moving on
results in that "whatever" being forgiven by Him and with us being
cleansed by Him.
There are times when it will be possible and even advisable for us to
make amends for things we have done in the past. But marriage is a
special case because it is a legal commitment as well as a moral one.
God designed marriage for the entire human race, not just for believers,
and everyone in any country I know of has to abide by the legal
requirements of marriage particular to that country. A marriage is a
marriage and a divorce is a divorce. Adultery is having relations with a
third party a person is not married to at the time – it is NOT having
relations with one's legal spouse (which is mandatory in fact according
to scripture: 1Cor.7:3-5). What our Lord actually said was that if a
person "marries" without the right to remarry, that ACT of "marriage" is
an act of adultery – not that said person is thereafter in a "constant
state of adultery": there is no such thing and such a thing is
impossible; adultery is an act, not a state. So as well as being
ridiculous on the face of it, this is not what the Greek says in any of
the passages where this comes up in scripture.
It is true that some people get married when they should not have done
so. That is a sin. But Christians, even very good ones, sin all the
time. We should not do so, of course, but we are human beings; we have
sin natures, and we will never be perfect and sinless this side of
heaven in these corrupt bodies. Some sins are worse than others having
more profound consequences than others, but Jesus Christ had to die for
every single sin, no matter how small, no matter how large, for any of
us to be saved. And what is the solution to sin for a believer who has
been cleansed by the work of Christ on the cross? It is confession. What
is not a solution? Wracking oneself with guilt over a past sin that
cannot be undone. Trying to "do something" to "fix" some past sin is an
offense to the Lord who has already paid for it. Past sins cannot be
fixed, and feeling guilty about them is completely counterproductive
because they are done, in the past, and can't be changed – and Christ
has already died for them, more to the point.
So irrespective of whether or not you should have divorced or not
because of the abuse, should have left earlier or not, should have gone
back or not, should have gotten remarried or not, the point is that now
you are married. And the Bible is very clear about the fact that if at
all possible a believer who is married should stay married. Period. Is
your present marriage a happy one? All the more reason to stay in it. It
is not possible for me – nor would it be right for me – to weigh in on
the past circumstances you report, as to whether or not you had a
"legitimate right to divorce and a legitimate right to remarry". Only
the person in question knows enough about all the details to have a
chance of analyzing things exactly right. I will say that it is
pointless to do so in any case. Yes, there are circumstances where it is
legitimate to leave, legitimate to divorce, and legitimate to remarry.
But none of that really matters AFTER the fact. If a person is convinced
that he/she should not have gotten married (first time, second time,
whichever time), then the best thing to do is to confess – and then
forget and move on, not try to "fix the past" because we are living in
the present and not the past. No sin can be atoned for other than
through the cross, and believers in Jesus Christ have already received
blanket forgiveness so as to be saved. When we err after salvation as we
all do, we don't need another salvation "bath"; we only need to have
"our feet washed" (i.e., we only need to confess our sin to be forgiven:
Jn.13:10).
In my opinion, those who preach this false "state of adultery" hogwash
have a lot to answer for. Doesn't the Bible say "if you marry, you have
not sinned" (1Cor.7:28)? Doesn't the Bible say "let each man have his
own wife, and let each woman have her own husband" (1Cor.7:2)? Doesn't
the Bible proclaim the love of God, the forgiveness of God, the grace of
God? Everywhere. Doesn't the Bible condemn divorce (Mal.2:16)? How,
then, could anyone have the unmitigated gall to counsel a happily
married couple with children to divorce? Out of some esoteric (and
erroneous) interpretation of a verse of two, which interpretation runs
counter to everything else scripture has to say? As Paul says, "their
condemnation is [well] deserved" (Rom.3:8).
My advice would be to put this out of your head – and out of your heart.
Thank the Lord for the blessings He has given you – a good husband and
child – and make the most of your marriage and your family. The fact
that He gave you these blessings after the terrible, earlier suffering
you endured, shows His true character: mercy and love and grace – NOT
actuarial, legalistic vengefulness – our dear Lord Jesus is not like
that at all. The fact that these "individuals" who preach this dangerous
false doctrine don't see this only shows that they don't really know Him
. . . at all.
Finally, one other thing I always feel the need to point out is that
spiritual growth is the answer to all such problems of heart, both in
providing the armor of truth against false teaching directly but also in
providing the spiritual common sense every believer needs to navigate
the devil's world and fend off his attacks. I would strongly urge you to
find a place where you can grow through the actual truth of the
scriptures taught in depth in a responsible and orthodox way. That type
of teaching is, admittedly, relatively hard to find here in the waning
days of Laodicea, but if you seek it, you will find it – and you are
certainly welcome here at Ichthys (I also recommend online:
Bible Academy at the link).
And here are some other links at Ichthys (which will lead to many more):
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob Luginbill
Question #2:
[Troubled by being told that having relations with present husband is adultery]
Response #2:
Trust me, this is not something you need to worry about.
1) Adultery in the Bible means the same as the word we use in common modern
English: a married person having relations with a person OTHER than their
spouse, that is, with a person they are NOT married to – NOT with the person
they ARE married to.
2) As mentioned before, "a marriage is a marriage". We have laws to tell us who
is married and who is not and that is the standard the Bible and the Lord use as
well. If two people are legally married, it is impossible for them to commit
adultery unless they have relations with someone else outside of their legal
marriage. Divorce ends all marriages legally and thus ends a marriage biblically
speaking as well.
3) It is not only NOT wrong for married couples to have relations (clearly), but
it actually IS wrong for them to deprive one another (for whatever reason):
The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
1st Corinthians 7:3-5 NASB
There is all manner of nonsense out there in cyberspace nowadays – and not a
little in the "churches" too. But the scriptures are very clear if approached
correctly without inordinate guilt on the one hand or a desire to use them for
nefarious purposes on the other.
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #3:
[Troubled by being told that continuing in the marriage and having married relations will result in going to hell]
Response #3:
Let me assure you that all believers are saved (and thus "get to heaven"); only
unbelievers are not saved (and thus "go to hell"). You believe in Jesus Christ.
Therefore you are a believer. Therefore you are saved. Therefore the Lord has a
place for you in heaven – just as He has for all of us who believe in Him
(Jn.14:1-4).
I would not want to be in the shoes of someone who is falsely telling you lies
as if they were biblical truths.
As to divorce, as mentioned before, there are times when marrying or divorcing
can be the wrong thing to do. But while these are indeed important matters, and
do have consequences, confession of any sin – assuming that there is a sin
(there are also valid reasons to divorce and valid reasons to marry) – results
in that sin being forgiven. If I thought I had married "wrongly" I would confess
that to the Lord and move on; same goes with a divorce. In these matters
scripture supports cleaving to the status quo as far as it is possible to do so,
that is, to stay married if married (and if that is possible – severe abuse or
the unwillingness of the other party are two common things which make it
impossible), and to stay single if single (but not if this will result in
falling into sexual sin from incontinence: 1Cor.7:1-2).
Scripture NEVER tells us to go out and do something crazy to "fix" the past. The
past cannot be "fixed". Jesus died for all of our sins. That is the only way
anything has been "fixed", and we appropriate the grace of His sacrifice by
believing in Him. This you have done, and so you are forgiven and so you are
saved. If you made some mistakes (I'm not weighing in on that at all), then you
were forgiven when you confessed them. We all make mistakes in life in many
areas and in many things. I dare say there is not an adult Christian alive who
is not living with the consequences of any number of past mistakes. None of
these can be changed. But they are all forgiven at salvation for life eternal
and they are all forgiven as we move forward in our Christian life for the
restoration of our fellowship with Jesus Christ just as soon as we confess them.
After we confess, in marriage, divorce and also in countless other matters,
there is no point in trying to go backwards. What we are to do is to move
forward in Christ:
Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches.
1st Corinthians 7:17 NIV
Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife. But even if you do marry, you have not sinned;
1st Corinthians 7:27-28a NKJV
Since you are married, the Bible's advice is clear: stay married. There is no
biblical justification for getting divorced because of these sorts of issues.
There is a lot more about all of this – all amounting to the same conclusions –
at Ichthys:
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #4:
[Trouble by competing email correspondence threatening hell unless divorced.]
Response #4:
I think you know by now that I consider all that other fellow told you a
bunch of hogwash. No Christian should pay attention in any important
spiritual matter to someone who is admittedly not a Christian in any
case. After all, there are enough false teachers who claim to be
Christian.
God promises to forgive us our sins when we confess so you can rely on
that promise 100%. God only tells us the truth and He is absolutely
faithful.
And, clearly, it would be nuts (to use the technical term) to ruin your
life, your husband's life, and your child's life to satisfy the rantings
of some crazy false teacher (even if the devil is good at making us feel
so wrongly guilty that we consider such awful things). God has called us
to peace (1Cor.7:15), and that is what I wish for you. I am sure it is
no accident that God gave you a good husband, a good marriage, and a
wonderful child. How anyone could ever have the nerve to threaten that
is beyond me – as I say I wouldn't want to be in such a person's shoes.
Since God has blessed you, please have peace and happiness in that
blessing. As I always want to ask horrible people who upset good
Christians with such evil counsel, "so you are actually counseling for
someone to get a divorce? !" – that is clearly the hypocritical opposite
of what they claim to be the basis of their position, that is, the
sanctity of marriage.
As to hell, I wouldn't worry about it. As a believer in Jesus Christ,
you have nothing to worry about on that score. Only unbelievers are
going to hell (the lake of fire after condemnation at the last judgment)
– and they are going to "hell" because of their refusal to cede their
will to Christ in believing on Him and accepting salvation from Him.
Most people, oddly enough to me, would rather rule their own will for a
few short years without deigning to honor God by accepting His Gift of
Christ than live with Him in paradise forever. But that is the way God
worked things out so that those who want no part of Him will have no
part of Him, while we who are grateful to accept salvation will live
with Him forever (for more see the link:
"The Last Judgment").
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #5:
[Troubled by guilt about the supposed need to tell spouse about all past life details]
Response #5:
I think it is very much ill-advised to do so. We are not required to confess our sins to any human being, even our closest loved ones. It is the Lord to whom we are to confess and Him alone. What we tell others is a matter of judgment. In many cases we will not be helping them AT ALL by telling them certain things. We may be assuaging our own feelings of guilt, but that is a false motivation and the consequences of indulging it are sometimes quite negative. And there is a big difference between what we are doing "today" while in a marriage and what happened "yesterday" when we were not in this marriage. Most people have "baggage" – in fact I personally don't know anyone who does not. The best place for the past is in the past. Dredging it up is never profitable and it is not biblically recommended. I know there are a lot of human-viewpoint programs and organizations which recommend this (psychoanalysis, AA, etc.) but it is really a very bad idea. Christians are supposed to live one day at a time, anticipating Christ's return tomorrow, and forgetting about the past. You can't change the past. You can, however, mess up the present by dwelling on the past. Here is what Paul says about this subject:
(12) [It is] not that I have already gotten [what I am striving for], nor that I have already completed [my course]. Rather, I am continuing to pursue [the prize] in hopes of fully acquiring it – [this prize for whose acquisition] I was myself acquired by Christ Jesus. (13) Brethren, I do not consider that I have already acquired it. This one thing only [do I keep in mind]. Forgetting what lies behind me [on the course] and straining towards the [course] ahead, (14) I continue to drive straight for the tape, towards the prize to which God has called us from the beginning [of our race] in Christ Jesus. (15) So as many as are [spiritually] mature, let us have this attitude (i.e., of focusing on our spiritual advance and reward and not getting hung up on what lies behind: vv.13-14), and if in any matter your attitude is off-center, God will reveal that to you (i.e., assuming you are mature and are advancing as you should). (16) But with respect to the progress you have made, keep on advancing in the same way!
Philippians 3:12-16
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #6:
[Still troubled by the prospect of hell for not divorcing present spouse]
Response #6:
As a believer in Jesus Christ, you have no reason to be afraid
whatsoever. Ironically, those who do not believe in Him and who are not
concerned are the ones who ought to be.
Please remember, God is not looking for ways to punish us. After all, He
sent His one and only dear Son into the world to rescue us, precisely
that we might not be condemned.
"For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved."
John 3:17 NKJV
And the price He had to pay in condemning Jesus, and the price our Lord had to pay in being judged for every single one of our sins, is beyond imagination – it is bigger than any number of universes that could ever be conceived, and more terrible than all the suffering of every human being from Eden to the end in its smallest part. What is needed is not fear or any sort of guilt about the past or any works that we might think to do – because Christ did the "work" on the cross, covering our sins with His blood (spiritually speaking; see the link and cf. Eph.2:8-9). So . . .
So what shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who is against us? He who did not spare His own Son, but handed Him over for our sake, how will He not also graciously give us everything [we need] along with [that gift of] Him? Who will [dare to] bring charges against God's elect? God is the One who is pronouncing [us] justified. Who is he that condemns [us]? Christ Jesus is the One who died [condemned in our place], and the One, moreover, who was raised from the dead [for us], who is [seated] at the right hand of God, who is also making petitions on our behalf. What will separate us from Christ's love? Tribulation? Or privation? Or persecution? Or hunger? Or destitution? Or danger? Or violence? As it is written, "For your sake we are being put to death all day long. We were accounted as sheep for slaughter". But in all such things we are decisively victorious through Him who loved us [enough to do what He did for us]. For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, neither angelic nor human authorities, neither things present nor things to come, neither heavenly powers, be they the highest [of the elect] or the lowest [of the fallen], nor any other created thing [on this earth] will be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:31-39
I urge you to have faith that you are a child of God and dearly beloved
by the Savior who bought you out of sin and death. He would no sooner
let you be lost than you would disown the child you love. The only thing
that separates a person from the Lord is the bitter sin of unbelief.
Don't give into fear but instead have faith! The Spirit within testifies
to you that you belong to Him forever, and the New Jerusalem is your
eternal destiny.
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #7:
[Troubled by internet hogwash counseling no relations with spouse or divorce]
http://www.desiringgod.org/articles/divorce-remarriage-a-position-paper.
Response #7:
Since God hates divorce, how could counseling you to get a divorce be a godly thing? In fact, such advice is 100% contrary to scripture. When our Lord castigates the Pharisees for divorcing their old wives just because they want someone new, notice that He does not tell them to now divorce their new wives and take back the old. Once an egg is broken, it can't be put back together again. And once a marriage is made, it is made. After getting married, however one came to it, the biblical advice is to stay married because it is godly to maintain the status quo in this regard whereas changing it (either through marriage or divorce) can be problematic in the first instance and wrong in the second:
Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife.
1st Corinthians 9:27 NKJV
Since you are married, the Bible says you should stay married, because
"the Lord hates divorce" (Mal.2:16).
I realize that some false teachers want to say that being married isn't
being married. That is ridiculous on the face of it. Marriage is
marriage. Not being married is not being married. We all know who is
married and who is not because the state licenses marriage. That has
been more or less the case from the beginning, that is, the definition
of a legal marriage has always been the province of the state. God sets
up secular authority for the benefit of us all so that we may live
peaceful lives of service to Him (Rom.13:1-7). One of the functions of
secular authority is the recognition and defense of marriage. Marriage
is something God invented for all human beings, not just believers. If a
person is living in a state where divorce is not legal, then it would be
impossible for a person to get remarried because the first marriage
could not be broken. That, however, is a rare circumstance historically.
Where divorce is legally allowed – and it is allowed in the Law of Moses
too – legal divorce ends a legal marriage. Period. That is the way God
has seen to this issue. There is no such thing as a "Christian marriage"
which is in any way any different in terms of legal status from any
other marriage in the state in question, at least not according to the
Bible. And for a false teacher to proclaim that two married people,
legally married people, are "not married in God's eyes" or some such
hogwash, is to contradict the scripture and rewrite God's words for Him
– nothing could be more dangerous. As Paul says of such sorts, "their
destruction is assured", but it is also very dangerous for any believer
to listen to such false teaching, especially out of misplaced guilt –
the devil's ace trump – because it makes said person all the more
vulnerable to believing a lie.
Here is the bottom line: if you are legally married, then you ARE
married in God's eyes. As such, the last thing He desires is for you to
get a divorce. Doing so when you don't want to in order to satisfy the
perverse preaching of someone who is probably not even saved himself is
about the most dangerous thing I can imagine. Not only would you be
harming yourself but also your husband and of course also you child –
and for no biblical reason . . . and you would have to answer for all
that. There is no scripture which says a marriage is not a marriage.
These people never produce such a scripture because it doesn't exist.
So, if a person gets divorced when they should not have – or is not sure
whether or not they should have – and then gets remarried when they
should not have – or is not sure whether or not they should have – none
of that makes any difference whatsoever AFTER being legally re-married.
Because NOW the person is married legally, and the standard biblical
rule for married Christians is what now applies: don't get divorced.
"Wrongful" previous actions do not change the fact of being legally
married NOW (regardless of the nature of the past "wrongfulness"
involved).
We all make mistakes. We all sin (e.g., Rom.3:23; Jas.3:2). When we do,
we are disciplined for it and need to confess it. When we do, we are
forgiven and restored to fellowship with the Lord. The last thing a
believer should do at that point is look backward. The Christian life is
about going forward, not backward. Even if we have done things we
regret, that cannot be changed. There is no work or making of amends
that can ever be done which can change what has happened in the past
because the past cannot be changed. So the only thing that will happen
if we allow ourselves to be so consumed by guilt to the degree that we
look back and try to "make it better" will be that we will "make it
worse" – and often much worse. Are you married? Stay married. And,
having confessed anything you may think needed to be confessed, forget
it and move forward.
This brings me to your other email. Let me assure you . . . again . . .
that God is not looking to punish you or anyone else. He sent Christ to
die for all. As believers, if we are disciplined, it is by a loving
Father who is teaching us for our own good and out of love
(Heb.12:1ff.). But in terms of when this life is over, we believers are
going to be with the Lord who loves us and paid the price for all of our
sins. No one is going to hell for sinning. That is not at all how the
last judgment works. Why not? Because Christ has already paid the price
for every single sin. The only people going to hell (and there are
plenty of them) are those who refuse to put their faith/trust in Jesus
Christ, His Person and His work, for salvation. You are a believer; all
believers are saved; only unbelievers are not saved. It's not about sin.
It's all about faith – or lack thereof – in the One who died for our
sins.
Finally, I want to encourage you to begin moving forward with spiritual
growth. Guilt and negative emotions are hard enough to deal with when a
believer is recovering from spiritual malaise. If a believer is not,
however, moving forward spiritually, there will be no way to get past
the guilt and other troubles of the heart. Spiritual growth is the cure
for all such problems. As I hope this and other emails show, there are
all manner of doctrines and truths which have application to any problem
a believer may have. So the only way that a believer can be "thoroughly
equipped" (2Tim.3:16-17) for any situation is to grow spiritually
through attention to the truth in general (rather than only ever
researching specific points of personal interest). If I want to get into
good physical shape, I'll have to do more than only ever exercising my
left big toe. There is an abundance of material designed for this
purpose at Ichthys. One good place to start is
the Peter series (see the link). Of course it doesn't have to be
Ichthys (I also highly recommend
"Bible Academy" for example at the link), but without spiritual
nutrition these sorts of problems are less likely to be resolved.
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #8:
[rallying against false teaching]
Response #8:
You're very welcome.
Keep moving forward spiritually and "consider the source" in regard to those who
are not really interested in the truth.
Yours in Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #9:
[two correspondents who counsel divorce and/or no relations with spouse compared
Response #9:
What they both have in common are: 1) being dead wrong; 2) not having
your best interests at heart.
But the Lord DOES have your best interests at heart.
He has blessed you. I'm sure that means something – more than the false
words of false teachers for certain.
In Jesus,
Bob L.
Question #10:
[Thanks]
Response #10:
You're very welcome!
Keep fighting the good fight of faith in Jesus Christ our Lord.
Bob L.
Question #11:
[Troubled by false counsel to divorce and return to first abusive husband]
Response #11:
Yes, this demand seems to me to be directly in contrast to the guidance
under the Law – an interesting thing for hyper-legalistic people to
push: ". . . then her first husband, who divorced her, is not allowed to
marry her again . . ." (Deut.24:4 NIV). As far as people following this
absurd counsel, I can only guess that many who do so are really only
looking for an excuse to back out of their new commitment. Anyone who
gives up a good marriage because of the "advice" of false teachers is
making the worst possible bargain and is not without culpability before
the Lord for violating their vows and for harming others terribly when
it was completely unnecessary. All I can say about that is I would
shudder to be in the shoes either of those who give this evil advice or
of those who are foolish and willful enough to take it.
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #12:
[Troubled by more internet hogwash threatening hell]
http://byhisspirit.info/problems-with-todays-divorce-and-remarriage-exception-clauses/
Response #12:
As a believer in Jesus Christ, you are NOT going to hell, I assure you (Jn.3:18,
e.g.).
Please do NOT divorce your husband – you wouldn't be going to hell for that
either but I would be surprised if such an action did not result in very severe
and long lasting divine discipline, especially since you know very well now that
it would be wrong (not to mention also the source of a great deal of misery and
unhappiness).
Let me give you some advice: stop reading these articles. You know they are
lies. Why torture yourself? Believe me I have seen this before, namely,
believers who have an "itch" over something like this and just can't stop
scratching with the result that it gets infected worse and worse. Please stop
scratching.
I can tell you the truth over and over, but it won't do you any good unless and
until you believe it. Please believe the truth. Please believe the Lord. Doesn't
He say He forgives you? Yes He does (1Jn.1:9; cf. Ps.32:5-6). Isn't He a loving
and merciful and gracious God? You know He is. Didn't Jesus die for all of your
sins and mine? That is how we are saved. Please understand the character of the
Person with whom we have to do: He wants your good, spiritually and every other
way. He is not trying to trap you, trick you or destroy you. That is the devil's
job, and the devil is good at it. The evil one will be happy to confirm all of
your worst fears, using guilt in particular. But "we are not unaware of his
schemes" (2Cor.2:11). Being forewarned is being forearmed. You KNOW this stuff
is nonsense. So please "consider the source" and deliberately turn away from it.
Be grateful for all the good things the Lord has done for you.
One more thing. I'm sure I've mentioned this before, but the only way to get to
the point of having peace in all things and having good spiritual "balance" so
as not to be tripped up by every little thing that comes your way is to grow
spiritually. And that requires giving attention, serious attention, to all areas
of biblical truth, not only reading your Bible consistently and daily on your
own, but also spending time learning from a good teaching ministry . . . and
believing the truth you are taught. That is the only way to "put on the whole
armor of God" with which the Lord intends for you to fight this spiritual
warfare in which we are involved (Eph.6:11ff.). Ichthys is one place which
offers this freely and anonymously (I recommend beginning with
the Peter series at the link), but there are other good places as well (I
also recommend
Bible Academy at the link). If a person is physically malnourished, talking
about food won't help – eventually the person has to start eating to be helped,
and good nutritious food at that.
I did look over the link. It is chock full of incorrect exegesis and faulty
argumentation. It plays to guilt – just like the devil does. And most
significantly it does not give any convincing evidence that a Christian must
divorce under any circumstances – and that, after all, is the only critical
point here (not reasons for divorcing or rightness or wrongness of remarrying
which is all beside the point once a new marriage is made). The Bible never
advocates that, so Blogger puts up a huge prior barrage (of inapplicable
nonsense) before getting to the main issue. Blogger then gives three examples he
says support this horrendous, horrific and highly hypocritical advice to get
divorced – these are the same ones that these false teachers always advance, and
none of them hold the least bit of water:
1) John the baptist and Herod marrying his sister (in law). OK, if you marry a
close relative, an animal, or a person of the same sex, I'd be willing to go
along with "divorce after marriage" not being a bad idea – an annulment, really,
because these things don't constitute a true man-woman marriage: incest,
bestiality, homosexuality, these are sins regardless; having relations with your
spouse, however, is not a sin, in fact refraining is a sin (1Cor.7:2-5). And
John did NOT tell Herod to get a divorce. He said "It is not lawful for you to
'have' her" (Matt.14:4), meaning just what I said, namely, that incest is incest
regardless, and this is a case of incest according to the Law under which Herod
and John were living (Lev.18:16).
2) Ezra. Ezra is a historical book. It relates what people did. It doesn't say
what they did was good, bad or in between. Like the book of Acts, its correct
reports are therefore not prescriptive in the same manner as Jesus' teachings in
the gospels or the apostles in the epistles. Did they decide that Jewish men who
had married non-Jewish non-believers should divorce? Yes they did. But there is
NO indication that there had been a "prior marriage" or any of the things that
false teachers like this say make a divorce necessary. The divorces were done
for RACIAL reasons only. So . . . here we have believers getting divorced from a
FIRST marriage where there is no "exception clause" to get them out, and doing
so for the very purpose of RE-MARRYING to provide all Jewish offspring. As I
say, this is what happened – God didn't tell them to do it. But, to the extent
that people want to take guidance from this, what this event tells us is that
under some circumstance it is prudent to divorce from a FIRST marriage in spite
of no clear biblical grounds to do so and contract a SECOND marriage for other
purposes. So this incident tells us the exact opposite of what false teachers
want to say. It says "remarriage is OK". So I've always found it odd that these
people use this passage and also that it can upset remarried folks – just shows
you the power of guilt to blind a person to the truth.
3) David and Bathsheba. This one takes the cake. Blogger says "he married
Bathsheba after she was a widow"!!! So if we want to be "right before the Lord"
we should do what David did and murder our divorced partner's spouse?! Anyone
who has the cheek to make this argument is not to be paid the time of day, in my
view. As I've said before, "their condemnation is deserved" (Rom.3:8).
Please note that there is NO scripture which EVER even suggests that a believer
must divorce even if remarried or married to an unbeliever or in any
circumstances whatsoever. That is powerfully odd for such a drastic situation,
isn't it? I mean if it really were what God wanted. Think about it, if a person
were "going to hell" (of course believers don't "go to hell" no matter what) for
being wrongly married, wouldn't there be at least ONE verse which said that, or
suggested it? But there is not even a verse which hints that such an action is
even acceptable, let alone required, let alone endangering salvation if not
done. Our Lord told the Pharisees that by divorcing their first wives and
marrying others – out of lust and cruelty – they had in so doing, that is, in
the act of divorce and remarriage, "committed adultery". But our Lord does NOT
tell them that now they must divorce #2 and go back to #1; nor does He tell them
to stop having relations with #2; nor does He tell them that they are going to
hell for their actions. Most of them did, no doubt, "go to hell" – because they
were unbelievers and would not even deign to accept the Son of God Himself or
turn to Him . . . instead they saw to it that He was crucified.
As I say, you can find this sort of drivel you link to anywhere. Truth is a
little harder to come by – as is always the case. But I do encourage you to have
peace on this. Whatever happened with you in the past – and I am NOT weighing in
on that – you are married NOW and God has clearly blessed that marriage. He
would not do so if it were something He wanted you to end. Divorce is to be
avoided if at all possible (Mal.2:16). A second divorce doesn't take away the
first one, obviously. It only makes matters far worse, injures innocent people
for no good, and throws God's blessings back into His face. That is what a
person ought to be afraid of, not the rantings of self-righteous servants of the
lie who apparently get a kick out of torturing innocent people.
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #13:
[Troubled about reading the Bible because of fear it will condemn the marriage as currently living in sin]
Response #13:
The Bible won't tell you that because you aren't. There is no verse in the Bible
that can be taken to mean that a married person is "living in sin" for being
married. So please have no fear of reading your Bible! It is only going to
encourage you as you read all of the wonderful things the Lord has "prepared for
those who love Him" (1Cor.2:9).
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #14:
[Determined not to leave husband, child and marriage but feeling ill about supposedly going to hell]
Response #14:
He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
John 3:18 NKJV
Question #15:
https://blogs.thegospelcoalition.org/kevindeyoung/2010/11/03/a-sermon-on-divorce-and-remarriage/
[According to this relations with husband = adultery]
Response #15:
Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
1st Corinthians 7:3-5 NKJV
Question #16:
[Troubled over same issue]
Response #16:
I've been trying to help. I can tell you the truth. I can give you
scriptures which clearly lay out the truth. But ultimately it's up to
you to believe the truth. The things you have been sharing with me from
these false-teaching websites are lies. I have shown you why in great
detail. If you have specific questions I can help with that. But now is
the time to spit out the lies and embrace the truth. Only truth you
believe can help you. Don't believe lies. Believe the truth.
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #17:
[Troubled by the same issue]
Response #17:
The only married people I've ever been aware of who did not "do what all
married people do" have been those whose relationship was totally "on
the rocks" . . . or headed there (for whatever reason). As the quote I
gave you (1Cor.7:3-5) makes very clear, it is wrong for a Christian to
deprive his/her spouse – that is a sin for sure; that is in the Bible.
That is why I believe it – it is in the Bible. But this crazy "constant
adultery" theory you are allowing to trouble you is not anywhere in the
Bible. It is a perverse invention being foisted upon innocent parties
like yourself for all manner of cultish reasons. One of the things any
cult or false teacher will always do first when they have a "nibble" is
to do all in their power to isolate the new victim from his/her friends,
families and past life. That is because when the new convert has
divorced him/herself from everything else and everyone else, he/she has
nowhere left to turn except the new cult / false teacher. In other
words, the new convert is now a complete slave with no recourse but to
accept everything being told to them as "true" and to put up with all
manner of abuse and exploitation – because they have nothing else left.
This is classic cult behavior. Please stay away from all such persons,
groups and teachings, and pay them no mind. People are always misusing
the Bible to further their own ends – but you are free to read it for
yourself.
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #18:
[Trying but "what if they say is true?"; worried about hell]
Response #18:
Christ called us to peace, not to fear (Jn.16:33; 1Jn.4:18). If there were
anything to fear, He would have told us. As it is, the only thing to fear is
loss of faith in Him. As long as we keep faith with Him, keep believing in Him,
nothing can "separate us from the love of Christ" (Rom.8:35).
He loves you. He died for you. He knows your heart.
It's your job to trust Him, to believe Him, to take refuge in Him.
Don't give into your fears. And please remember my advice: spiritual growth is
what will put all this to rest over time, but it does require effort (Bible
reading, prayer, and most important of all daily access and attention to a good
teaching ministry).
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #19:
[What if God is trying to say "not forgiven"?; what if "those people" are right?]
Response #19:
It's very important to remember that our feelings – especially guilt
feelings – are frequently out of sync with what the Bible actually
teaches. I can't debate your feelings with you. But I can tell you that
the Bible says very clearly that you are saved and have no need to worry
about your salvation; that you have been forgiven when you confessed
whatever sin you may have committed; that it would be wrong of you to
divorce your spouse without reason (that would be a sin or great
consequence); and that the false teachings which are troubling you are
just that: false.
I would certainly be happy to address or re-address specific points on
this question, but please understand that when the Lord is trying to get
our attention on some point of truth He is specific not general –
misplaced guilt is general, not specific, especially when it is being
stoked by the evil one and those who do his bidding.
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #20:
[Questions if I am a pastor; still haunted about hell and what "that man" said]
Response #20:
You can see my qualifications at the link:
"Current C.V.".
Please believe me when I tell you that if you look hard enough on the
internet you can find someone who will teach the opposite of each
principle of truth found in the scripture. As Peter says:
But there were also false prophets among the people, even as there will
be false teachers among you, who will secretly bring in destructive
heresies, even denying the Lord who bought them, and bring on themselves
swift destruction.
2nd Peter 2:1
The Spirit will lead you to a good teacher if you are willing to be led.
Over time, through attention to good teaching, your fears and worries
will melt away as you gain confidence in the actual truth. But this is a
process. As I have said before, you can't just attack the symptoms
(worry over one issue / concentration on one issue). Spiritual growth
requires giving one's attention to everything the Bible has to say, and
believing the truth one is taught about all areas of doctrine.
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #21:
[Making progress but false teachers say others are "soothsayers and just telling" what is wanted to be heard; hopes all will be OK]
Response #21:
Good for you! It will be "OK". Like all tragedies of the past, this too
will fade if you let it do so. And if you commit to a course of
spiritual growth in general, you will find that with each passing day
you have more and more spiritual resources to cope with the assaults of
the evil one.
It's all about faith . . . in the Lord, His gracious and loving Person,
and in His truth.
Yours in Jesus Christ our dear Savior, the One who died for all of our
sins that we might be saved.
Bob L.
Question #22:
[Asks why these false teachers call opponents "soothsayers"; Asks if ex's cheating was a biblical reason for a divorce and remarriage]
Response #22:
I've never heard this particular insult before, so this leads me to believe that you stumbled into a den of uniquely perverse vipers. I would imagine that they use this term because they feel it impugns the veracity and motivation of the people who disagree with them on the deepest of levels. "Soothsayers" are spiritists, people who consult demons. There's nothing worse a genuine Christian can be called than an agent of the devil. So that's what agents of the devil always call those who oppose them in order that they themselves may be better able to deceive the sheep of Christ (they did this to our Lord, you may recall: Jn.10:20).
For such are false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into apostles of Christ. And no wonder! For Satan himself transforms himself into an angel of light. Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also transform themselves into ministers of righteousness, whose end will be according to their works.
2nd Corinthians 11:13-15 NKJV
Yes, it takes an unbelievable amount of gall to represent oneself as Simon pure
and sinless and decree that anyone else who's every had a complication in their
life in this area you ask about now must ruin their life and those of others in
order to adjust to these false teachers' view of things. But if we put their
lives under a microscope, we would find things in their past too. One thing we
know for certain is that they are going to be judged for their false teaching
(Jas.3:1; cf. 2Pet.2:1) – before this life is over, if they really are even
believers in Christ.
As to your last question, as you have read at Ichthys, the exception our Lord
gives for allowing divorce under the Law of Moses (and we are NOT under the Law
of Moses) is porneia on the part of the spouse – and cheating is most
definitely that. Further, divorced individuals did get remarried under the Law
and there is no indication that there was any injunction against it (e.g., there
are exceptions where a person may not marry if divorced such as to a priest,
meaning that in general it was allowable).
But again, I would wish to stay away from such legal niceties (we are under
grace, not Law: Rom.6:14). The point is, it is always better to remain single if
single, and it is always a rule that one ought to stay married if married. But
if a single person gets married, while they will have trouble as all married
people do (1Cor.7:28), it is better to marry than to fall into sin (1Cor.7:9),
and so it is no sin to get married (1Cor.7:28). And if a person does get
divorced for whatever reason, then it is better thereafter to stay single, but
if that is not possible without incontinence, then it is better to marry than to
fall into sin (1Cor.7:9), and so it is no sin to get married (1Cor.7:28) . . .
etc. If a person is "settled down" into a situation that works, that is a
blessing not to be taken for granted, especially in this day and age when being
married (or being single) is so difficult because of the particulars of our
culture. You have been greatly blessed with a good marriage and a family. I
consider it criminal for someone to upset you with false teaching and threaten
thereby the good things God has given – and they have clearly come from Him,
haven't they? If that is the case (and you know that it is), then how can
destroying His gifts be a godly thing? It is certainly not a biblical thing – as
demonstrated many times now.
Again, let me encourage you to set yourself to a program of daily spiritual
growth. It doesn't have to be through this ministry (although of course I am
enthusiastic about it), but spiritual growth through attention to and belief in
the truth taught but a good, solid teaching ministry is the only way to gain the
spiritual resources necessary to fend off these sorts of attacks on the one
hand, and progress in your walk with Jesus Christ so as to earn eternal rewards
on the other.
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #23:
[Troubled by whether or not there were "biblical grounds" for prior divorce]
Response #23:
I think it's a mistake to get involved in legalistic discussions about the whys
and wherefores on this issue. That is because the Bible does not approach the
issue that way – and that is why there is so much rancor when people try to lay
out the "rules and regulations" on this issue. The rule is love. The rule is
forgiveness. The rule is maintain the status quo – and then repent, confess and
move on if for some reason you are unable to do so. The rule is it's better to
stay single. But the rule also is that it's important not to stray into sexual
sin so it's better to marry than to do that. The rule is that it's no sin to
marry. And the rule is that if married, better to stay married if at all
possible. We all sin. And we are all cleansed of our sin by the blood of Christ
and forgiven when we confess. My advice to you is to rejoice in the good
marriage and family that God has given you – and bury the past. It makes
absolutely no difference at this point whether or not and to what degree there
were "grounds" or what might have been possible "if" or what you should have
done instead of "doing what you did". There is no point in such endless post
mortems of something like this. It only leads to dredging things back up again –
things which at this point cannot be changed (except to make things worse NOW).
Forget and move on – and be grateful for what you have. As a believer, you are
safe in the everlasting arms of the Lord, and as long as you remain a believer
in Jesus Christ have nothing whatsoever to worry about in regard to your eternal
future with Him. The challenge as a believer in Christ is to grow spiritually,
progress in your walk with the Lord and then help others do the same. That is
how the
crowns of eternal reward are won (see the link). All that preoccupation with
this issue is doing is distracting you from spiritual growth – and spiritual
growth is the only thing that can lead to the consistent peace of resting in
faith.
So, again, I urge you to move on, confident in the knowledge that as someone who
has placed their trust in Him you belong to Jesus Christ, and that it is good
and right for you to remain in the situation you are in, making it your priority
from here on in to live for Him.
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #24:
[Preoccupied with thoughts of hell]
Response #24:
The Christian way of life after a person gets the point of spiritual
maturity in particular is very much about holding onto the "mental high
ground". That is to say, our walk with Jesus is to a large degree
continuing to "believe what we believe" or "act on what we believe". We
say we trust Him, but do we act like it? We say we love Him, but are we
doing what He wants us to do in growing, progressing and producing for
Him? We are bombarded from without by satanic tests and the negative and
evil influence of the culture in which we and our lives are awash, and
from within by our sin nature which tempts us, and also by our own
negative thoughts from wrong things we have done, thought, seen etc. in
the past. Sanctifying Christ in our hearts, thinking about "the things
above", is no easy matter. It takes practice. It takes perseverance. But
most of all it takes continued spiritual growth.
I am confident that in your heart of hearts you know very well that you
are going to heaven and that you most definitely not "going to hell".
Hell is for unbelievers, for those who refuse to acknowledge and put
their faith in Jesus Christ, and most definitely not for believers:
He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
John 3:18 NKJV
So what's the problem? The problem is faith. The problem is trusting
Him. The problem is functioning (or actually not functioning) on the
things we believe instead of reacting to what we are feeling at the
moment or to what is happening around us. Instead of walking through a
dark and angry sea with wind and lightning all around, we are actually
on a rainbow bridge that leads straight to the other side and to the
glory of God. But we have to see that bridge with the eyes of faith –
it's not visible to our fleshly eyes. They tell us one thing. They tell
us the worldly thing. Peace only comes when we commit ourselves not just
to believing the truth in principle but to believing it so thoroughly
and deeply that it actually bleeds through into what we think, say and
do. That takes time. That takes practice. That takes spiritual growth.
That takes commitment and a determination to trust Jesus Christ no
matter what. He is greater than all of our fears and failures. And
remember, He has already died for all of our sins.
Here are some links on this which would be helpful to read:
Maintaining a Sound Christian Offense in our Spiritual Warfare
Who Controls our Thoughts and Emotions?
The Battlefield Within: Fighting the inner spiritual Struggle.
Only you can control what you think and how you feel – but it is a
fight, and you have to commit to fighting the fight.
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #25:
[Troubled by being told to go back to first abusive spouse or suffer hell]
Response #25:
I don't know the specific "why" of why people tell lies and teach what
is false. The general answer is that they are being influenced by the
devil.
I strongly advise you not to have further contact with this person.
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #26:
[They claim to be Christians]
Response #26:
This passage says it all:
For men of this sort are false apostles, workers of guile, masquerading as apostles of Christ. And it is no wonder, for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light. So it comes as no surprise that his servants also masquerade as servants of righteousness. Their end will be according to their deeds.
2nd Corinthians 11:13-15
In Jesus who is the truth,
Bob L.
Question #27:
[Individual is thought to be a pastor of a church of Christ
Response #27:
Then he has all the more to answer for.
Question #28:
[Seems like they believe it; where do they get the idea if not true?]
Response #28:
If you will read over our long email stream, you will see that we have discussed
the supposed passages where this false doctrine is supposed to be taught. People
use the Bible all the time to support false positions, and even actual
Christians get things wrong sometimes. This, however, is "a big one". Anyone who
would counsel a happily married couple with children to divorce over a very
tenuous and derivative interpretation of passages which clearly don't say
anything of the sort on the face of it is looking for trouble from the Lord.
Self-righteousness is a powerful force for evil. As our Lord says, "by their
fruit you will recognize them" (Matt.7:16-20). If the fruit is definitely bad
(as in this case), one should have no more to do with the tree.
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #29:
[Thank you; life is now good after a physically abusive childhood and a similar first marriage]
Response #29:
You are most welcome. You have been through a lot and you deserve much
better from supposed ministers of Christ than reproaches for being a
good wife and a good mother. I will say it again: God has clearly
blessed you and would not have done so if He were displeased with your
situation and wanted you to change it. Don't give into unfounded guilt.
Accept the blessings you have been given in Jesus Christ and be pleased
to embrace His peace (spiritual growth helps with that very much).
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #30:
[Still troubled by the prospect of hell for "not following the Law of God"]
Response #30:
I think I've assured you many times now that as a believer in Jesus Christ you are not "going to hell"; hell is for those who refuse to believe in Jesus Christ:
"He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God."
John 3:18 NKJV
"Following the law of God" sounds like a good thing, but what is "the
law of God"? If this person means "the Law of Moses", well, scripture is
very clear about the fact that we are no longer under that Law (e.g.,
Heb.7:12); and I know for a fact that he is not appearing in Jerusalem
three times a year to offer sacrifice at the temple – or about 90% of
the other things that the Law of Moses commands. If he means "the Bible"
generally, well, that is what we have been discussing all along, and the
Bible NEVER ever tells anyone to get divorced. True, in Nehemiah many
men did get divorced from non-believing pagan wives . . . for the very
purpose of remarrying to produce all-Israelite offspring: again, they
were not in second marriages but in first marriages and they divorced in
order to contract second marriages, even though their first wives were
willing to live with them (contrary to 1Cor.7:12-13) – for the purpose
of Jewish racial purity. So that very unique situation does not apply
today at all – and if it did it would give a motivation to remarry a
believer to produce "godly offspring" (Mal.2:15).
When it comes to being married to another believer, God "hates divorce"
(Mal.2:16) – so how is it that a person who says we should "follow the
law of God" can tell someone who is married to a believer to "get
divorced"?
True, John the baptist told Herod that it was "against the Law of Moses"
for Herod to have his brother's wife – but 1) we are not under the Law
of Moses, 2) we are not married to our brother's wife (incest) – and
that was the problem with Herod's situation, it being against the Law of
Moses to be married to one's brother's wife (Lev.20:21).
John in the example above says nothing about divorce, moreover, and even
our Lord Jesus does not say "get divorced" when He tells us that putting
away a fellow Israelite wife to marry someone younger is sinful – He
merely affirms that it is a sin even though the Pharisees were covering
it up with false interpretations of the Law of Moses. That is very
interesting because our Lord is otherwise absolutely straight-forward
here. So why doesn't he say what this person wants Him to have said,
namely, "so divorce the new wife and be reconciled to the old one"?
Because two wrongs don't make a right, and because divorce is never the
preferred solution, that's why.
I know of nowhere in scripture where anyone is told by God to "get a
divorce" – even in Nehemiah this is only what "they did" as a practical
solution to a unique problem (a tiny community in danger of being
ethnically swamped by this behavior), not something that is specified to
do in the Law (far from it), and not something that God told them to do
through a prophecy.
So there are no Bible verses that ever say "get a divorce" if your
marriage doesn't fill out some checklist which this legalistic,
self-righteous person has concocted – not even close; in fact, just the
opposite:
Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released.
1st Corinthians 7:27a NASB
"Following the law of God", if it means anything (where is that
particular phrase in the Bible exactly, so that we may examine its
context?) ought to mean learning and following the truth He gives us in
the Bible. That is what you have been doing and what I have been
encouraging you to continue to do.
We all live our own lives and are responsible to God for doing so. We
are not here to live other people's lives, and if we hand over our free
will to someone else nothing good will come of it. That is especially
true if the person we are talking about is counseling us to do evil
things.
I have no earthly idea why you should be the least bit upset because you
refuse to do something evil – and that is surely what destroying a
Christian marriage and a Christian family would be, regardless of the
motive or method in so doing. Is God going to punish you for refusing to
do something evil? Something which is commanded nowhere in the Bible?
Because some fool tells you that you must? You decide.
I will say it again. Only unbelievers go to hell. Anyone who teaches
that a believer goes to hell for whatever reason (through action or
inaction or what have you) does not understand the first thing about the
cross (Jesus died for all of our sins) or grace (God does the work and
we accept it by faith) or salvation – not at all! Which leads me to
wonder about the salvation of someone who seems to have not a clue about
it in the first place.
Yours in our dear Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Bob L.
Question #31:
[Troubled to the point of illness out of fear of hell for not following false teaching advice]
Response #31:
As a child of God, God loves you.
And we have known and believed the love that God has for us.
1st John 4:16a NKJV
He is not looking to destroy us but to save us.
. . . who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.
1st Timothy 3:4 NKJV
Because Jesus died for us all.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
John 3:16 NKJV
So if you believe in Jesus you are saved, no ifs, ands or buts, because all believers are saved; only unbelievers "go to hell".
He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
John 3:16 NKJV
So you have eternal life, which means you are going to be in heaven with the Lord for all eternity.
These things I have written to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life, and that you may continue to believe in the name of the Son of God.
1st John 5:13 NKJV
As for these people who are upsetting you, here is also something very important I read in the Bible:
Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world.
1st John 4:1 NKJV
Just because someone tells you they are speaking for God does not make
it true. Even the devil does that (2Cor.11:13-15). It's up to you to
"test the spirits", not by communing with your fears but by reading the
Bible. In the end, it's up to you to read the truth and believe the
truth. There is no verse in the Bible that says anything like a believer
has to get a divorce. But there are many verses (read the above again)
which assure you that you belong to Jesus Christ because you believe in
Him – and so you will be with Him forever.
You have to learn to trust Him by trusting what He says, not what other
people say.
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #32:
[Still troubled: "please read this article"]
Response #32:
A Christian does not need to read any further than the first paragraph to see
that the person he/she is dealing with is probably not a Christian. When he says
"be baptized for the remission of their sins . . . That is the only way they
will ever obtain salvation", it is clear that he does not accept Jesus as
Savior; that is because he believes in water-baptism for salvation. But
salvation is entirely a matter of grace, "not of works, lest anyone should
boast" (Eph.2:9 NKJV). Water-baptism is in fact not even legitimate today. It
was a ritual for Israel to prepare for the coming of the Messiah (John's
baptism) – and the Messiah has already come, suffered, been resurrected, and
ascended to heaven. Muslims will also tell you that you are going to hell . . .
for not worshiping Mohamed; Roman Catholics will also tell you that you are
going to hell . . . unless you join the RC church; Mormons will also tell you
that you are going to hell . . . unless you practice plural marriage. One could
go on. If you are looking for some liar to tell you unpleasant things, well, I
suppose that is what the internet is for. As for me, I would never even give
someone who is obviously not even straight about salvation and therefore a
dubious Christian at best the time of day when it comes to any important issue.
Remember what our Lord said, "by their fruit you shall know them"
(Matt.7:15-20). The test of a good teacher should not be someone who is able to
upset you with lies that have no basis in the Bible – that is to the contrary
the mark of a false teacher whom you should scrupulously avoid (including not
allowing yourself to be upset by what he says).
Other points: "The only God-given reason for a divorce is adultery":
Correspondent immediately misquotes his own verse! Our Lord says porneia
which c's translation renders as "sexual immorality"; that is not a bad
translation but porneia covers an even wider swath. We also need to
remember that this the situation under the Mosaic Law, and that we believers are
not under the Mosaic Law. Why is that important? The Law was the legal as well
as the moral/religious code of the day. So when our Lord weighed in He was
criticizing the violation of the laws of marriage in that time and place.
Marriage is for everyone and we are obliged to follow the law in our native
land. It is not "illegal" to marry if divorced in this country; it was
technically so in Israel in that day but the Pharisees had found a "loophole" –
or so they thought. Our Lord points out that it was improper. But He does not
tell them to get a divorce. Nor does He tell them that they are going to hell
for their marital state (no doubt most of them did go to hell but because they
refused to believe in Him). And He actually states as I've pointed out before
that the act of getting married under the Law in a wrongful way was an act of
adultery – not that having relations with the woman now the spouse after
marriage was "constant adultery", and He does not tell them to stop have
relations. Paul says that would be wrong (1Cor.7:3-5).
Everything else about this email written to you is also wrong.
1) We are forgiven when we repent and confess – we are not "only forgiven" when
we make some sort of amends. That is works and actually negates the confession.
2) Baptism with water is also works and wrong to do under any circumstances;
when it is tied to salvation or forgiveness it is a horrible legalistic sin. As
I say, I doubt anyone in the grips of such false doctrine could actually be
saved.
3) Esau was never a believer and never desired to be saved – that is the
difference.
4) "God only approves of the marriage He binds regardless of the number of
civil relationships that person might have in the future (John 4:17-18)":
God bequeathed marriage to all mankind and that is the point of our Lord's words
on the subject in taking things back to Genesis chapter two. There is no
distinction here in God's eyes: a marriage is a marriage and all know what a
marriage is. That is also the point of the passage this person quotes! It
demonstrates that the Samaritan woman's subsequent marriages were in fact
marriages, and that the live-in situation she is now in without a marriage is
not a marriage because now she has not bothered to marry the person: a marriage
is a marriage.
5) "It would be better for him . . . etc.". We must assume that this
person has never sinned at least not after being saved. In fact, he probably is
not saved. All of us sin all of the time. While it is true that some sins have
more drastic consequences (cf. 1Cor.6:18), it is not true that some sins are
benign: Christ had to die for every single sin, but the good news is that He
did, and we are forgiven everything for salvation when we first believe and
everything else thereafter whenever we confess (1Jn.1:9).
This is not a question of rules and regulations. If a person gets married, there
are two possibilities: 1) it involved no mistake; or 2) it was in one way or
another a mistake. If there was a sin involved, then sin is forgiven for
believers when we confess. Please understand, getting divorced cannot possibly
erase any sin, even if there was one! All divorce can do is to add a very large
wrong to the situation. I have no idea if you were "rightfully or wrongfully"
married. To me, the issue is complicated in general and your personal situation
as you have shared some of it is also complicated. But that only goes to my
overall point: this is not a question of "the Mosaic Law". We are not under the
Law any longer. So if you feel "convicted" of having done something wrong, by
all means confess – and the move on with your life in the absolute assurance
that God does not lie: He says He forgives when we confess and so He does.
But that is not the problem, is it? You are worried about your eternal
salvation. I can tell you that all believers are saved. That is what the Bible
says and that is a point I have attempted to drive home with you many times now.
I can tell you that this person who is upsetting you does not believe that –
which is why I doubt his salvation. He is a follower of a new Law largely of his
own making, involving water and emotion and all manner of behavioral tests. That
is not grace. And only grace saves.
If he is a believer, I would not want to be in that person's shoes when the Lord
gets around to taking notice.
At some point you have to start believing the Bible and not false teachers who
are very practiced at producing guilt feelings in people who have not lived
perfect lives (which includes us all, even them, and most particularly them).
As mentioned before, for true peace in this world, spiritual growth is
essential. It can't be achieved by merely churning over one issue that is of
importance to the person in question. It requires giving attention to all of the
teaching of the Bible. I strongly encourage you to set yourself on that path.
That is the way to recover the joy of your salvation and put all these
groundless doubts to rest. Here are some links on that:
Spiritual Growth
Spiritual Growth IISpiritual Growth III
Encouragement, Spiritual Testing and Spiritual Growth
Encouragement, Spiritual Testing and Spiritual Growth II
Encouragement, Spiritual Testing and Spiritual Growth III
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #33:
[Thanks. This is helping. Still scared because one false teacher is a "Dr."]
Response #33:
I went to a lot a trouble to get an actual Ph.D. in Greek/Latin (and an M.A. too
and an MABS in Hebrew studies) not only because I wanted the preparation but
also because I thought it was fair for future readers like yourself to have some
reason to be confident I had some idea what I was talking about. Nowadays in
most seminaries, however, people get "Dr." pretty easily as in "Dr. of Ministry"
where they don't have to know anything about the Bible or the original
languages, only do a lot of "pastoral counseling" and the like. I looked this
guy you are worried about up – he has a B.A. and that's it. The degree is not
even from a school anyone ever heard of and it doesn't say what he majored in.
So I would gladly put my five degrees in history, Hebrew and Classics (Greek and
Latin) and fifteen years of higher education – and my twenty seven year career
in Classics being involved in issues of history and exegesis in Greek – on the
scale with his four years and one degree in who knows what.
But, actually, it is all about the Bible and the Bible is very clear. It never
tells anyone to divorce. Think about it. David murdered a trusted subordinate
using his power as king to do so, having committed adultery with the man's wife,
then married her. If the Lord were going to tell anyone to divorce or go to hell
it would have been David in that horrible circumstance. But David married her
and so was married to her. Another wrong wouldn't make a right. The child born
of the adultery died, but Bathsheba then had Solomon, who became king after
David and in the direct line of the Messiah. The Lord did punish David, but as
He always does, as a loving parent correcting bad behavior. David repented of
his sin (Ps.51:1ff; cf. Ps.32:1ff.) – but he did not divorce her nor stop having
relations with her. God clearly forgave him (2Sam.12:13; and see the referenced
Psalms). David never stopped being joyful in the Lord, and he never divorced
Bathsheba.
Wherever one looks in the Bible one finds God's mercy and God's grace. He always
forgives us when we confess to Him in truth. Where these legalistic people get
these despicable ideas is beyond me, but they do not get them from the Bible.
What will give you comfort is growing faith. You have to come to a better
understanding of who God really is. Once you begin to realize how truly good and
loving the Lord is, these sorts of concerns will melt away. You will realize
that He is for us and not against us. That He loves us more than can be
understood this side of heaven. Once you understand what it took for the Lord to
go to the cross and die for all of our sins – more than all the suffering of
this life by all who have ever lived in its smallest part – you will begin to
get an idea of the wonderful love He has for you. He does want us to live
sanctified lives and so we should. We do all fail from time to time, however,
and He does level appropriate discipline to correct us, but He is not trying to
destroy us – and neither does He expect us to destroy ourselves and others in a
vain and foolish attempt to change the past. The past cannot be changed. Even if
you did follow the crazy advice you've been given it would not take away any
supposed sin. I'm not convinced there was/is one, but even if there was/is, it
is absurd and blasphemous to think that what we do can take away sin. Christ
took away sin on the cross and most Christians today apparently have little
enough understanding of the magnitude of that event upon which all history and
creation is founded. He loved us enough to do that. We ought to love Him enough
to trust Him.
He says He forgives you (Ps.32:1ff; Ps.51ff.; 1Jn.1:9, e.g.).
Trust Him.
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #34:
[Thanks. Will you look up ___ who says "constant state of adultery"? Refuse to go back to physical abuse or abandon husband and child]
Response #34:
Good for you!
This was the person I wrote about last time so I did look him up – no
credentials to speak of; and nothing he says is biblical (you can see
that for yourself).
Our God is a God of love (1Jn.4:8). He sent Jesus to die for our sins
out of love (Jn.3:16). He is not trying to destroy but to save all
willing to be saved (2Pet.3:9). And all it takes to be saved is to
believe in Christ (Acts 16:31) – because Jesus has already paid the
entire price of salvation. That is what grace truly is – not our works
as this fellow and so many other false teachers proclaim (Eph.2:8-9).
God loves you. The best thing for you to do is to love Him back
(Matt.22:36-37), appreciating all He has done for you (Phil.4:6).
I was speaking to you of David. Read his psalms. In spite of the things
he did, he was forgiven – and lived his life in earnest gratefulness to
the One worthy of all our love.
Trust Him. Hope in Him. Love Him.
I'm sorry for your past life of horrific suffering. I am grateful to and
give praise to the Lord for the blessing He has showered on you in these
latter days – and I am very relieved to hear that you will not be
throwing it back in His face by doing something foolish recommended to
you by a false teacher.
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
Question #35:
[Please read these three articles and comment]
Response #35:
#1: The fallacy here is the proposition that having relations with one's
spouse is "illegitimate" if the marriage was "illegitimate". That is
nowhere in the Bible. If you marry someone, you are married to them.
That is true whether or not getting married was a good idea or allowable
under the Mosaic Law. If you are married to someone, then you are in
fact married and married relations are the only allowable ones, with
denying one's partner being a sin (not the other way around).
This one is saying that it is wrong to draw conclusions from calling a
marriage a "covenant" and then extrapolating from that. OK. I don't see
how this one makes any difference one way or the other.
Correspondent says that "penance" is necessary for someone "wrongly
married". There are marriages that should not be made, obviously. People
marry the wrong person all the time out of all manner of bad
motivations. Also, believers are not allowed to marry unbelievers. But
what if a believer goes ahead and does so anyway? Does he/she have a
"right to divorce" or "need to divorce". Absolutely not, as 1st
Corinthians 7:12-15 makes very clear. That is because a marriage is a
marriage. Divorce – whether "rightful" or "wrongful" ends a marriage –
it is different from separation wherein there could be reconciliation.
And a marriage – whether "rightful" or "wrongful" – is a marriage.
Married Christians should stay married, regardless of prior
circumstances so that these pejorative words are pointless. Here's the
only question needing to be asked: "Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek
to be loosed. Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife."
(1Cor.7:27 NKJV) – and the same principle applies to women (obviously).
Married people should stay married and fulfill all marital obligations;
single people should stay single, but marrying "is not a sin"
(1Cor.7:28). And even if there was something wrong with getting married
and even if there was disregard for God's will in getting married, real
or imagined in guilt after the fact, that like any other sin (and we all
sin all the time), is forgiven when confessed to the Lord. It doesn't
demand a divorce – which would indeed be not just a horrible sin but
even worse an abnegation of responsibility and solemn commitment; such
an eventuality only requires a heartfelt prayer of confession to the
Lord (as with all other sin).
I'm not going to belabor the details in this long PDF file because this
person is a Roman Catholic bishop! I hope I don't have to explain that
Roman Catholicism is a religion which actually has nothing to do with
believers. It is a religion of works so that it is no surprise that this
person says "penance" is necessary. This person is not a believe nor are
the vast majority of those in that religion. They believe they are going
to heaven because they are members of that church and most have little
regard for or understanding of who Jesus Christ is and what He did for
us. I have known many R.C. folks in my life and the vast majority of
them are fine, upstanding people – but they are not believers (any more
than Mormons are who are also often wonderful people, but not saved).
Salvation comes by grace through faith in Jesus Christ (Eph.2:8-9) and
it is "not of works" but this is a "works religion"; and penance is a
form of works. The idea that "doing something" could remove sin spits in
Christ's face – He died for that sin, whatever it is/was, and only by
His dying for it could a person be saved/forgiven. Suggesting that we do
something instead is the most repugnant possible thing to the Father.
Here's the main point on all this. Don't get fixated on "was this
marriage right or wrong?" That is the wrong question to ask AFTER being
married. Once married, it makes no difference because NOW you are
married and your job as a Christian spouse is to be the best spouse you
can be to the glory of Jesus Christ. You are not to "seek a divorce"
(1Cor.7:27) – the very opposite of what all these false teachers say.
You are to make a good marriage if possible. That is why I try never to
get into the weeds about the situation before marriage. For one thing,
there is so much we cannot really know, whether the previously married
person was oneself of one's new spouse. We can't really know for certain
what went on in their hearts, minds and bodies previously, let alone
those of their prior spouse; and the same thing goes for us. What the
Lord says is that under the Mosaic Law divorcing a woman without cause
is wrong unless there has been porneia, and that a person who
does so in order to marry someone else is guilty of committing adultery
by the act of marriage – not in having relations after marriage
(something that must not be denied to the new partner); nor does our
Lord tell these hard-hearted men that they have to get divorced. Indeed,
the whole thrust of what He says and what the Bible says elsewhere is
anti-divorce. So here is what I always say one more time based upon what
the Bible actually teaches (as opposed to what false teachers assume):
1) Are you single? Best to stay single.
2) Did you get married (to whomever for whatever reason)? Best to stay
married.
3) Did you get divorced (for whatever reason)? Best to remain single.
4) Did you remarry? Best to stay married (regardless of the prior
circumstances).
People who claim that marriage is not marriage have no biblical grounds
to do so. The Bible very clearly presents marriage as marriage
regardless of the circumstances preceding the marriage.
People who counsel divorce or abstinence for those who want to stay
married are giving the exact opposite of the biblical advice.
People who listen to people who teach things that are not in the Bible
and in fact run counter to the Bible are only going to get themselves
into serious trouble spiritually by so doing.
In Jesus Christ our dear Lord and Savior,
Bob L.
A special word of thanks to all who have been praying for this ministry. The Lord has brought about a great deliverance for me and mine. I am forever grateful to Him, and also to all of you who have been faithfully interceding for me and for this ministry.
The Lord is my strength and my song, and He has become my salvation.
Exodus 15:2
Addendum: 12/24/16: I also want to thank everyone who has been praying for my family and especially for my mother. She passed away yesterday morning at the age of ninety-six. Considering the sad shape she was in, it was a blessing that the Lord took her when He did. She died "full of years" in the company of those who loved her, and now she is with the Lord – and nothing is better than that (Phil.1:23; Rev.7:17; 21:4).
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For comfort for Jon and his family in the loss of his father. Thanks to all who have been praying for him. Jon reports convincing evidence that his dad was indeed saved before the end. Praise the Lord!
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For Abby for success and blessing in her new efforts in ministry, and for her cousin Danny's health. *Please also pray for her health, strength and perseverance in stressful and challenging circumstances.
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For our friend Bartek, for the recovery of his health, and also for success in gaining citizenship in the UK. *Also, please pray for empowerment and help for his father in his evangelization ministry.
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For help and support for Yuhanna and his family in the midst of continuing trial and testing, and for the salvation of his wider family. And please pray in particular for financial help and help for a better job for his wife in the midst of this crisis. This is a critical time for his situation and potential deliverance [still waiting to hear 2/4/18]. *Yuhanna also asks for prayer for his wife and children find a sound biblically based church and for the Lord to display the fruit of The Spirit in their lives; and also for Charlotte to find employment.
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For Ramsey, for success in his job application process [praise here! please keep him in your prayers].
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For our friend Gaurav, for encouragement, health, and material deliverance.
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*For the empowerment of our friend Curt's ministry; for his health, the health of his family [praise for good news here - please pray for Curt's own health], and for his finances. *Critical: please also pray for immediate deliverance from false accusations.
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For our brother Abishai's help and guidance in preparing for ministry, as well as for his healing and help with his business to provide for his family's basic needs, and for the health and healing of his young daughter [praise here!]. Please also pray for his brother, a believer, to be led to the truth on important issues of doctrine.
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For our friend Betty's help and deliverance [praise the Lord for answered prayer!].
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For our friend Carol's recovery, encouragement and for help in her professional life.
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For our friend Vau's father for healing from critical illness, and for Vau's encouragement [praise here!].
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For our friend John's family's deliverance from cult influence [praise for some good news here, but some members are still entrapped].
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For our friend Kathleen's recovery from a terrible accident.
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For our friend Steve for strength, protection, providence and deliverance – more needful now than ever.
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For help and deliverance for our friend Cindy's daughter.
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*For our friend Brittany's healing from cancer, and for her spiritual recovery and encouragement.
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For our friend Ken and his family's protection from persecution for seeking the truth.
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For the family of Jewel, a recently martyred pastor in Bangladesh (please see the link).
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Ken Young's ministry and for his health (please see the link).
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For Christian congregations being persecuted in Sri Lanka (please see the link).
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For our friend Neal's help in and healing from devastating illness.
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For young Joel, a newborn with Zellweger syndrome, for his healing and strengthening.
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For our friend Mark's successful surgery and swift recovery.
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For the healing, blessing, encouragement and vindication of our brother, Nihal
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*For our friend Mike's encouragement and God's blessing on his livelihood to provide for his family (urgently needed at present!).
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For Helen's healing from cancer and for her comfort in the loss of her family members.
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For pastor Don's wife Jessie's healing from cancer.
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For Clyde's encouragement and deliverance in severe testing.
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For John, for help in getting more hours or work or a better job.
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For our friend John's help in coping with a difficult medical condition (cadasil).
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For our friend Paul's father-in-law, for deliverance from cancer.
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For healing for Leigh's dad's health (praise for betterment here - she thanks everyone for their prayers), for her daughter's healing from hypothyroidism and celiac disease, and for encouragement and help for her.
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For the salvation of Judah's friend.
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For Tom for help in the development of all skills necessary for an apologetics ministry combating atheism in particular.
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For the deliverance of Michael's wife from extreme charismatic influence.
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For Michael's deliverance from debt, stress and unwanted conflict – special prayer help needed here as things are getting worse.
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For our friend Karl's mother's salvation.
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For our friend Oscar's continued spiritual growth and help in securing suitable employment in spite of serious satanic opposition.
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For Richard Khum and Mission Training School in Myanmar (richardlkhum@gmail.com).
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For Ashley and help with her marriage.
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For Wen and family in a new area without suitable Bible teaching.
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For Zach's healing, deliverance and comfort from severe cult abuse and control, and to be led into God’s truth.
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For the salvation of Danny's mother and for her healing in extreme pain; for healing in body and mind, and for his protection and blessing on his family and for their reconciliation. Please also pray for Danny's living situation, and also for his job situation where he is experiencing persecution.
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For deliverance for John's friend from the JW heresy.
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For our friend who wished to remain nameless, for her protection and the protection of her children from a hostile and aggressive "ex".
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For the deliverance of Jay's friend from the influence of a noxious cult.
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For our friend Anna and her family's comfort in the loss of her daughter, and for the comfort, encouragement and salvation of her two children.
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For our friend Sheila's healing from the after effects of a chronic condition *(praise here for healing! but please continue the prayers until she is completely back on her feet).
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For our friend Sandra, suffering from multiply myeloma [praise here! please keep her in your prayers].
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For David's wife who is recovering from back surgery.
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For friends Lynette, Angie, Marcia, Dan and Jeffery, all of whom are presently under heavy spiritual pressures and in need of prayer and encouragement.
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For our newly converted brother Jacob in India, for healing for him and for his daughter, for his material needs, and for the salvation of his parents.
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For our friend Tommy, for a roof over his head.
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For the protection of Crystal and her family.
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For Billy's mother to be led into all of God's truth.
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**For Resi in transitioning from Roman Catholicism and for help in serious financial difficulties. Please also pray for our friend to find a good job soon. Prayers also please for family who does not share his faith.
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For Kim and her family, and for her daughter's deliverance from a cult.
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For Leigh – she thanks everyone for their prayers (the Lord has taken her father home in a peaceful way).
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For Ryan's salvation.
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For Brian's healing from sleep apnea, protection on a hazardous job, and continued spiritual growth.
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For help for Steven in successfully carrying a heavy and difficult academic load in preparing to minister to the body of Christ.
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For the opening of Daniel's heart to the gospel and his salvation in Jesus Christ.
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For Becca's family, for help with serious medical and financial troubles (praise here for answered prayers!).
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For the salvation of John's two unbelieving sons.
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For Charles' granddaughter, for the perseverance of her faith and for her deliverance from drug addiction.
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For Bogdan's salvation and receptiveness to the truth.
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For Clinton, for a place to live, help in finishing school, and spiritual growth.
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For Bob for help in healing a painful skin disorder.
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For Chris, for the preservation of his job in the midst of budget cuts [praise here! Victory! Job retained!], and for his health and protection on the job.
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For the salvation of Mitch's wife.
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For Dorota's healing from cancer.
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For help for Sam's recovery from cancer and deliverance from extreme insomnia.
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For Cary, for encouragement in persecution abroad, and for health and strength.
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For Ania, for her salvation and spiritual growth in the truth.
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For our friend Odii, for help in finding a way to make a living without compromising his principles in a difficult field (social media).
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For Alex' and Chris' mother, for her salvation and the opening of her heart to the truth.
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For our friend Carmen, for the healing of her boy and her husband, the protection of her granddaughters, and her encouragement and strength in negotiating a difficult trial.
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For Amber's continued spiritual growth and encouragement, and for her healing.
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For Sande's encouragement and perseverance in proclaiming and teaching the Word in the face of significant resistance.
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For Christine, for help and protection in a longstanding debate with several JWs, and for Melina and Sandra, for their salvation and deliverance from the WT.
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For Christian, for the prospering of his consultancy in order to have more time to prepare for and engage in ministry.
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For Kim, for help for her and her family in struggling with severe financial pressures and for moving forward with spiritual growth.
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For Brooke, for peace and blessing her marriage, and for her spiritual growth.
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For Filip, for salvation in Jesus Christ and spiritual growth thereafter.
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For Mélanie, for her healing and help in finishing her degree under difficult circumstances, and for encouragement to move forward with spiritual growth.
More E-mails: Complete archive of previous emails: Ichthys' Emails
The pre-Trib 'Rapture': so called 'imminence' and other false proofs refuted
Encouragement, Spiritual Testing and Spiritual Growth III
Biblical Languages, Texts and Translations X
Legalism, Past and Present III: Sabbath observance, tithing, dietary regulations and other issues
Salvation, the Gospel, and Unbelief II
Old Testament Interpretation IX
Christology Questions IX: Christ and His Church
Mutual Encouragement in Christ VI: Perseverance
Faith, Forgiveness, Salvation II
Ministry and Preparation for Ministry IV
Fighting the Fight V: Dispatches from the Laodicean 'Front' II
Old Testament Interpretation VIII
Ministry and Preparation for Ministry III
New Testament Interpretation IV
Biblical Languages, Texts and Translations IX
Peace, Reconciliation and Salvation
Mutual Encouragement in Christ V: Soldiers of the Cross
Old Testament Interpretation VII
Dangers of the Pre-Trib Rapture False Teaching
Biblical Languages, Texts and Translations VIII
The Infinity, Magnitude, Glory, Providence and Plan of God
The Bible and the Canon: The Inspired Word of God IV
Nephilim, Antichrist, the False Prophet and the Mark of the Beast
The Trinity and Messianic Legalism II
Annihilationism, Universalism, Hell and Judgment II
Politics versus Spiritual Growth II
Culture and Christianity XVII: Humor, Self-Defense, Pacifism and War
Culture and Christianity XVI: Alcohol, Money and Dietary Issues
Dreams, Visions, Miracles, Exorcism, Tongues, and False Prophets
Calvinism, Catholicism and Ichthys
Apologetics, Legalism, Cults and Philosophy
Mutual Encouragement in Christ IV
Genesis Gap: Questions and Answers V
Faith and Free Will in Trial and Testing
Free Will and God's WILL in Salvation
Jobs, Money, Finances and Giving: What does the Bible say?
Ministry and Preparation for Ministry II
Mutual Encouragement in Christ III
It is Better on the Other Side
Christology Questions VIII: The Deity, Humanity and Life of Christ
The Lives of the Apostles and the Writing of the New Testament II
Biblical People and Places: Eve, Cain, Noah, Abraham, Hagar, Esau, Joseph and more
Biblical Anthropology V: Body, Spirit and 'Soul', Present and Future
Satan, Antichrist, the False Prophet and the Mark of the Beast
The Holy Spirit: Pneumatology Questions V
Prophets, Prophecy, and False Prophets
Christology Questions VII: The Life and Spiritual Death of Christ and Holy Communion
The Bible and the Canon: The Inspired Word of God III
Culture and Christianity XV: The Bible vs. some Sensitive Social and Political Issues
Christology Questions VI: Christophany, Deity and the Spiritual Death of Christ
Encouragement, Spiritual Testing and Spiritual Growth II
Fighting the Fight IV: Dispatches from the Laodicean 'Front'
The Resurrection Body and our Eternal Future II
Blindness, Disease and Healing
Ministry and Preparation for Ministry
Biblical Languages, Texts and Translations VII
Encouragement, Spiritual Testing and Spiritual Growth
Judaism and Legalism in the church-visible
Confronting False Groups and False Teaching III
The Holy Spirit: Pneumatology Questions IV
Old Testament Interpretation VI
More Questions on the Book of Hebrews: Melchizedek, Esau, and the 'Impossibility' of Being Restored
Believers in the World IV: Making Godly Choices vs. Following Man-Made Rules
Guilt, Sin and Victory through Spiritual Growth
Confronting False Groups and False Teaching II
Politics versus Spiritual Growth
Christian Struggle, Perseverance and Deliverance
The Bible and the Natural World
An Extended Conversation on the 'Unpardonable' Sin
Eternal Realities: Real Heaven, Real Hell
Eschatology Issues XII: Babylon, Armageddon, Israel, 2026
Ministers, Ministry, and Preparation for Ministry
Evangelism in Principle and Practice II
Gospel Questions X: Glory, John the baptist, the hidden talent, the Kingdom of God
Matthew Questions, verse by verse
Politics and Political Action on the Eve of the Tribulation
Bible Versions, Bible Translation, and Bible Reading IV
Mutual Encouragement in Christ II
Genesis Gap: Questions and Answers IV
Culture and Christianity XIII: College, Dating, Marriage and Friendship
Eschatology Issues XI: Trumpets, the Millennium, the Time of the Tribulation and the Resurrection.
Sin according to the Bible: Hamartiology II
Angelic Issues VI: Cherubs, Guardians, Elders and 'gods'
Sin according to the Bible: Hamartiology I
Bible Chronology, Aramaic and Interpretation
The Trinity and Messianic Legalism
Anger, Anthropopathism, Eternity and Divine Motives
Unbelievers, Free Will, and the Plan of God II
Christology Questions V: the Baptism, Temptation and Spiritual Death of Christ
The Bible and the Canon: The Inspired Word of God II
Believers in the World III: Prosperity Gospel, Tithing, Cults and Legalism
Faith, Hope and Love: Virtue in Spiritual Warfare
Finding a Church – or Something Better? II
New Testament Interpretation III
Faith vs. History, Archaeology, Philosophy
Believers in the World II: Confronting False Groups and False Teaching
The 144,000 and the Two Witnesses of the Tribulation
Predestination, Free Will and False Teaching
Love, Marriage, and Divorce: Marriage and the Bible III
Interpreting Dreams and Analyzing Prophetic Claims
Bible Versions, Bible Translation, and Bible Reading III
Eschatology Issues IX: Amillennialism, Trumpets, and the Seven Days
Spiritual Warfare IV: Demons, Demonic Influences and Satanic Methodology
Atheism and Gnosticism: Denying the Truth about God
Sin, Salvation and Forgiveness: Claiming the Mental and Spiritual High-Ground
Struggling with Salvation . . . and Relatives
Ministry and the Ichthys Ministry II
All about Ichthys II: Mutual Encouragement in the Lord
The Book of Job and Christian Suffering
Genesis Gap: Questions and Answers III: Creationism, Neanderthals, Fossil Record
Christology Questions IV: Jesus' Birth, Baptism, Early Life, and Kenosis
Third Party Testimony III: Near Death Experiences, Revelations and Tongues
Third Party Testimony II: Charismatic Claims of Visions, Dreams and Prophecy
Third Party Testimony I: We Believe God and His Word – Not People
God Heals - in His way (not our way)
Sanctification, Separation and Restraint
Finding a Church – or Something Better?
Culture and Christianity X: Military Service, College, Politics, and Race Relations
Contemporary Churches and Women Preachers
Culture and Christianity IX: Politics, Tithing, Music, Crucifixes, Alcohol, and Gambling
Biblical Anthropology III: Soul versus Spirit, "Soul Sleep", and the Interim Body
New Testament Interpretation II: Who is equal? Grace in vain. Unequally yoked.
Aspects of the Crucifixion II: Wednesday, Thursday, or Friday?
Aspects of the Crucifixion I: Carrying the cross, trials and rooster crow.
The Canon: Content, Chronology, and Criticism
Spiritual Warfare III: Peter's 'Angel', Saul's Death, and Strange Events
Old Testament Interpretation IV: Gehazi's Leprosy, Tyre's Destruction, and Immanuel
Nephilim, Fallen Angels, and Genesis 6
Sin, Atonement and Forgiveness II
Sin, Atonement and Forgiveness I
Annihilationism, Universalism, Hell and Judgment
Noah, the Flood, and the Nature of Animals
The Tribulation: Timing of, Preparation for, and Conditions in
Eschatology Issues VIII: Revelation, Tribulation and Judgment
Antichrist: the Mark, the Number, and the Identification of the Beast
Satan's Revolt and the Tribulation to Come
Old Testament Interpretation III: The Name 'Jacob', the Mark of Cain, Jeshrun.
Old Testament Interpretation II: Urim and Thummim, the Bronze Serpent, the Ark.
Being Saved: Security, Apostasy, and the Sin unto Death
Fighting the Fight III: False Teaching, Local Churches, and the Truth
Fighting the Fight II: Struggling with Sin, Doubt, and Severe Testing
Fighting the Fight I: Accountability, Faith, Sin, Forgiveness, and Reward
Dispensations, Covenants, Israel and the Church II
Dispensations, Covenants, Israel and the Church I
Witnessing: Cults and Christianity II
Witnessing: Cults and Christianity I
Ministry and the Ichthys Ministry
Spiritual Growth, Church-Searching and "Discipling"
Unbelievers, Free Will, and the Plan of God
Biblical Languages, Texts and Translations VI
Paganism, Idolatry, Mythology and the Occult
The Lives of the Apostles and the Writing of the New Testament
The Essence of God and Deity of Christ
Parables and their Interpretation
The Meaning and Purpose of True Christian Assembly
1st John: Text and Interpretation
Perseverance in the latter days of Laodicea
Prayer: the Persistence, Purpose and Power of.
Paul the Apostle: Aspects of his Life and Ministry
Gospel Questions VII: The Wedding at Cana et al.
Israel, 'Lost Tribes' and the Star of David
Israel and Antichrist
in Eschatology
Explaining and Defending the
Trinity and the Person of Christ II
The Holy Spirit: Pneumatology Questions III
The Geography of Heaven, Hades and 'Hell'.
The Resurrection Body and our Eternal Future.
Christ the First-Born, High Priest in the Order of Melchizedek.
Bible Versions, Bible Translation, and Bible Reading II
Bible Versions, Bible Translation, and Bible Reading
Hermeneutics, Typology, Christophany, Theophany and Anthropopathism.
No, Hebrews does not teach that you lost your salvation.
Gospel Questions VI: the Long Ending of Mark et al.
Judas and the Betrayal of Christ
Doubting Salvation and Questions of Sin
The 144,000: God's Seal vs. the Mark of the Beast
Atheism: Putting Truth to Death
The Holy Spirit: Pneumatology Questions II
The Holy Spirit: Pneumatology Questions I
The Law, Love, Faith-Rest and Messianism
Sin and Salvation, Confession and Forgiveness
Have I Lost My Salvation? (III)
The Battlefield Within: Fighting the inner spiritual Struggle.
Putting Christ in Christmas: Loving Jesus, the Star and the Magi, Wonderful Counselor.
Healing, Miracles, and Dreams: Sorting the Wheat from the Chaff by biblical Means
153 Fish: Explaining some Difficult New Testament Passages
Kenosis: Our Lord's Self-Limitation during the 1st Advent
Biblical Anthropology II: 'Soul sleep', & dichotomy vs. trichotomy
Biblical Anthropology I: The Nature of Human Beings and Human Life according to the Bible.
Genesis Gap: Questions and Answers II.
Culture and Christianity VII: Jury Duty, Witnessing, Biometry, Military Service et al.
Culture and Christianity VI: Halloween, Holidays, Aliens, and Christian Applications.
Angelic Issues V: Michael, the Angel of the Lord, Christophany, demons, cherubs, and Satan's revolt.
Angelic Issues IV: Satan's Revolt in the Plan of God.
All about Ichthys: Mutual Encouragement in the Lord.
Fallen Angels, Demons, Nephilim, and the Devil's Methodology.
Salvation, the Gospel, and Unbelief.
The Bible and the Canon: The Inspired Word of God.
Communion and the Spiritual Death of Christ.
Israelology, Anti-Semitism, the Remnant, Gentiles, Lost Tribes, Jewish Myths.
"Soul Sleep" versus our true Heavenly State.
Christology Questions III: The Angel of the Lord, the Lamb Slain, monogenes.
Angelic Issues III: Demons, Satan, Elders, Female Angels and Guardians.
Against Universalism III: Unbelievers in the Plan of God.
Waters Above, the Firmament, and the Genesis Gap.
In Need of Guidance and Encouragement.
Biblical Languages, Texts and Translations V.
Servants, Slaves, Disciples, and Ministers.
Evangelism in Principle and Practice.
Scripture versus Personal Experience.
Calvinism, Covenants and Catholicism.
Culture and Christianity V: Temporal Authority vs. Biblical Application.
False Doctrine of Absolute Eternal Security III.
The Dangers of Messianic Legalism IV: Unclean and Impure?
Things to Come III: The Wrath of God and the Fate of the Beast's Army.
God Works All Things Together for Good.
The 7 Trumpets, the 7 Kings, Nephilim, Antichrist and Revived Rome.
The Coming Tribulation and the Kingdom of God.
Sin, Confession and Forgiveness.
Mutual Encouragement in Christ.
Biblical Languages, Texts and Translations IV.
Eschatology Issues V: "It is not for you to know the times or the seasons".
Ichthys and Contemporary Christianity.
Gospel Questions V: Help my Unbelief, Respecting our Enemies, etc.
The Two Witnesses of the Tribulation: Moses and Elijah.
The Apostles, the Jerusalem Council, and Legalism then and now.
Aspects of the Christian Walk: Gambling, Lying, Christmas, Judging, Worrying, et al.
Believers in the World: Using our Free Will to Respond to the Lord
John's Water-Baptism versus the Baptism of the Holy Spirit
The City of David, the Star of David, Solomon's Wisdom, and the Song of Solomon.
The Israelites at Kadesh and 'not entering the Land of Promise'.
Genesis Gap: Questions and Answers.
Sin and Spiritual Transformation.
One Baptism: the True Meaning of Peter's Words at Acts 2:38.
Apostasy and the Sin unto Death, the Conscience and Sanctification.
The Plan of God and Individual Salvation (excerpt from BB 4B)
In Your Anger, do not Sin: Ephesians 4:26 and the Sin Nature
On the Firing Line: Encouragement in Christian Trials
Eschatology and the Old Testament
Prayer and our Walk with Jesus.
Issues of Canonicity II: Aramaic, Enoch, KJV, and the Pastorals
Bible Vocabulary and Bible Word Studies
Satan, his Demons, and the Gnostics
Antichrist: Alive and Well and Living on Planet Earth?
Our Eternal Future: Life after Death for Believers in Jesus Christ
Giants and Nephilim, Sumerian Myths, and Sea Monsters
Free-Will Faith and the Will of God
The Spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy: explaining James 4:5.
Free-Will Faith in the Plan of God.
Putting the Word of God First.
The False Doctrine of "Soul Sleep" II.
The False Doctrine of Absolute Eternal Security II.
The Dangers of Messianic Legalism III
The Dangers of Messianic Legalism II
The Dangers of Messianic Legalism.
Mega-Churches, Emergent Christianity, Spirituality and Materialism.
Epignosis, Christian Epistemology, and Spiritual Growth.
Jephthah's Daughter, Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage.
Christian Unity and Divisiveness.
Death, Martyrdom and Resurrection.
Blessing, Cursing, and Prayer.
Fighting the Good Fight of Faith.
Only-Begotten, Mother-of-God, On-this-Rock: English-only Interpretation is Dangerous.
The Greek Text of the New Testament and some Issues of Textual Criticism.
What does the name 'Christian' mean?
Christians Beware: Internet Frauds and the Need for Spiritual Discernment (part 2).
Christians Beware: Internet Frauds and the Need for Spiritual Discernment.
Spring Special: The Millennial Regathering and Purging of Israel.
Last Things and Last Judgments
The Local Church and Personal Ministry IV
The Local Church and Personal Ministry III
The Local Church and Personal Ministry II
The Local Church and Personal Ministry I
Aspects of the False Doctrine of Institutional Security
Chronological Order of the Books of the Bible II
Biblical Languages, Texts and Translations III
Biblical Languages, Texts and Translations II
Biblical Languages, Texts and Translations I
Satan and the Existence of Evil.
The Holy Spirit: Blasphemy against,
Restraining Ministry, and Gender.
Spiritual Gifts and Spiritual Growth
Christian Love, the Golden Rule, Christian Military Service and Self-Defense.
Issues of Canonicity: Apocrypha, Enoch, and Inspiration.
Church: The Biblical Ideal versus the Contemporary Reality.
Numbers, Letters, and the Mark of the Beast.
Gospel Questions I: Jesus' Life, the Gospels and Cherubs, and who Wrote Matthew.
Naaman, Nero, Nineveh, and Senacharib.
The False Doctrine of Absolute Eternal Security.
Choosing Hell: Questions about Salvation and the Love of God.
The Route of the Israelites in Crossing
the Red Sea.
Some Issues of Transmission,
Translation, and Transliteration: The Camel and the Needle, etc.
Aspects of the Life of Christ:
Jesus' siblings, the man born blind, et al.
Redemption, the Blood of Christ, Christ our Passover, and The Passion of the Christ.
Eschatology Issues II: Angelic bodies, heaven and hell, Satan and the Nephilim, etc.
The Book of Job and Biblical Interpretation.
Some Questions about Eternity.
Who Controls our Thoughts and Emotions?
Sleep as a Euphemism for Death.
Literal Hell.
The Timing of the Resurrection.
Dispensations, the Church, the Rapture, and the Destruction of the Universe.
Christianity versus Contemporary Kitsch.
Purpose Driven Life, Oprah's New Age Religion, et al.
Lot, Esau, and Cain: Learning through
Negative Examples.
Against Universalism II: Only
Believers are Saved.
Against Universalism I: Free Will and the
Image of God.
The Seven Edens and the Eden of Adam and Eve.
Opposition to the Genesis Gap from the Creation Research Institute et al.
The Beast: Some Questions about Antichrist.
The Book of Revelation: Some Questions.
Red Hot or Lukewarm? Bible Teaching versus Sermonizing.
The Last Judgment and the Great White Throne.
Christology: Some Questions on the Life of Christ.
Train up a Child in the Way he should Go.
Unbelief and its Consequences.
Explaining and Defending the Trinity and the Person of Christ.
Free Will and Faith under Pressure.
Bible Interpretation I: Academics, Versions et al.
Faith in the Word of God: the Basis of all True Worship.
Aspects of the Resurrection II.
Faith and Encouragement in the midst of Fiery Trials.
Jethro, Amenhotep, Iraq, the Catacombs, and the KJV.
Eschatology Issues: The Fig Tree, Ezekiel 38, Joel 3, and the Trumpets.
Christ the Rock, the Rooster's Crow, and the Cross.
Applying Faith II: Production, Forgiveness, Circumcision, Truth over People.
Applying Faith: Eating, Drinking, and Vacation.
The Tree of Life, Communion, and the Virgin Birth.
Can Prayer Be Offered From Heaven? & Some Genesis Questions.
Walking the Path of Faith through the Light of the Word of God.
Salvation on the battlefield, truth revealed to infants, and damnation.
Preparing for
Tribulation.
Divine
Sovereignty and Divine Judgment.
Should Christians wear Jewelry?
The Events Surrounding the Birth of Christ.
Zechariah,
Demon Possession, Marriage,
Spiritual Experiences,
and Bible Prophecy.
No Grounds for Divorce?
The Shape of the Universe, Hominids, and the Genesis Gap.
Taking Personal Responsibility: Interest, Bankruptcy, Gambling, and Employment.
The Seven Churches, the Judgment Seat of Christ, and other issues in Eschatology.
The Canonicity of the book of Hebrews.
Great White Throne, the Last Judgment, and the Outer Darkness.
Political Action versus Biblical Christianity.
Study Tools and Methodologies.
The Gospel and the Kingdom of God.
Pursuing
a Deeper Relationship with Jesus and Christian Epistemology.
The
Origin and the Danger of the Pre-Tribulational Rapture Theory.
The Divinity
of the Spirit and the Percentage of those who are Saved.
Should
Christians ever consider getting a lawyer?
Pastoral Authority,
Popes, Pat Robertson, and Pelagianism.
Some
Questions on Church Polity.
Luther,
Arminius, Calvin, Kant, Ironside, Tutu and Thieme.
Transmutation,
Resuscitation, and Resurrection.
More
on the Documentary Hypothesis and More on the Rapture.
Enoch's Walk with God
and Some Questions in the Gospels.
The Influence of the
Renaissance and Rationalism on the Church and Cutting off Arms in
Malachi 2:3.
Eschatology
Questions.
The Cross, Sin, and the
Devil in God's Plan.
More on:
Spiritual Gifts; Hats & Hair; the Age of Accountability.
Who will
populate earth during the Millennium? and Asking for
Wisdom: James 1:5.
Was
Judas Saved?, The Gospel of Judas, and Issues of Canonicity.
Is 'My Son' Israel or
Jesus in Hosea 11:1? & How do you Prove Sin to Someone?
Did
Matthew Write his Gospel in Hebrew?
Christian
Crowns, Pagan Names, and the Time of the Cock-Crow.
Child-like
Faith, Mark vs. Matthew, the Mahdi, and 'Who was with God in the
Beginning?
True Orthodoxy
and False Creeds.
Foot-washing,
Bitter Herbs, Baptism, and Borrowed Faith.
Friday
versus Thursday Crucifixion.
Jesus' Cursing
of the Fig Tree, Apostasy, and 'Feng Shui'.
The Genesis
Serpent, Using "it" to refer to the baby Jesus, and more on Tattoos.
Why did
Jesus choose John over James to take care of His mother Mary?
Antichrist's
'desire of women' in Daniel 11:37 et al.
Do recent
catastrophes have a divine origin?
Does
God really want us to be sick and poor? Revisiting the prosperity
gospel.
Why did our Lord
Jesus arise from the tribe of Judah?
What will
our relationship be in heaven with children who died young?
The
baptism of the Holy Spirit as distinct from speaking in tongues.
The Grammar behind
the Genesis Gap.
The
Great White Throne Judgment.
Does God's
choice of us eliminate our free will?
Why
does God allow bad things to happen?
The
Bible as "divine", roof prayer, and tattoos.
Character
in Hebrews 1:3, et al.
"Are
the children of unbelievers lost if they die before receiving Christ?"
"Is
baptism necessary for salvation?"
"The
nature of life after death."
"The
personality of the Holy Spirit."
"The dragon of
Revelation 12 and
the talking idol of Revelation 13."
"Infirmities and Diseases in Matthew
8:17"
"The Leftover Baskets of Bread and Fish in
John
6."
"Waiting for the Ascension" and
"Amos 4:11".
Should Christians have a competitive
attitude?
John "leapt for joy" in the womb - or did
he?
Satanic Influence in Video Games and
Television.
Moving Mountains: Matthew
21:21
Not a hair shall be lost? Luke 21:16
versus Luke
21:18.
The
reign of antichrist: 7 years or 3 and 1/2 years?
"Doubts
about the Nephilim in Genesis 6" and "Ezekiel 9:4 and the Mark of the
Beast"
"Word
Counts in the Bible", "Him whom they Pierced (Rev.1:7)", and
"Necromancy".
"Waiting
for a Savior" and "The Direction East in the Bible"
Is there a purgatory according to the Bible?
Your desire shall be for your
husband:
Genesis 3:16.
Have I committed the unforgivable
sin?
Is the local church
meant to be a
patriarchy?
Why doesn't
the Bible
mention all of the prophets of the children of Israel?
Tohu in Genesis 1:2 and the Cause of the
Darkness.
Why Doesn't God Prevent All Children
from Dying?
Why were Christians being regarded as
"evil-doers" in 1st Peter 2:12?
Phylacteries and the Mark of the Beast,
and "What
about Joseph?"
Assembly of the local church, and
Jesus' use of
"I AM" from Exodus 3:14 in John 8:58
The "burden of the Lord" in
Jeremiah 23:32-40, and judgment for idle words in Matthew 12:36-37.
The importance of spiritual
resiliency.
Does God use disease to
discipline us?
Recovering from Cult Exposure.
Variability in Christian Testing
and Personal
Tribulation.
Is there any value to the Apocrypha?
The Christian Walk, the End, and
Tattoos.
Should Christians honor Sunday as the new
Sabbath?
Chronological order of the books of the
Bible.
Doubt, light, missed opportunities et
al.
Corporate prayer in Matthew
18:19:
"when two agree on earth".
What does the Bible say about humor?
The value of cumulative prayer.
Our Heavenly, Pre-Resurrection,
Interim State.
How could a loving God order the
destruction of the
Canaanites?
Should Christians observe the Torah?
Church Polity and three other passages.
Tongues: does 'no man'
understand?
The few saved, the door in
heaven, visions
of heavenly realities, and Christmas.
Christian suffering and
spiritual
maturity.
Aliens, antichrist, and eschatology.
Does exceptionally sinful
behavior indicate
that a Christian has lost salvation?
Should Christians celebrate Jewish festivals?
The Deaths of the 12
Disciples /
Apostles of Christ.
Categories of Sin in Psalm 19.
Some brief answers on a variety of
topics.
Pastoral Support, Pastoral
Preparation, and
the Purpose of Assembly.
Encouragement, Isaiah 6:11-13, and the
Hope of
Repentance.
Dinosaurs, the Nephilim, Noah, et al.
How much should we pay our pastor?
Is it wrong for me to celebrate
Easter?
Baptism and Following
Jesus.
The Communion
Ceremony outside of the
local church.
The Sealing of the Holy Spirit.
Visions of Angels: Colossians 2:18.
Waiting on God's timing: patience in testing.
"Your Throne, O God": Psalm 45:6.
What is meant by the phrase "the Lord's footstool"?
A conversation about divorce and remarriage.
Faith in the midst of the fiery trial.
Hebrews 10:26 again, and two other notes on Arthur Pink and the Greek word diakonos.
What is the correct translation of Isaiah 59:19?
Is the star of Acts 7:43 the star of David?
Some questions about Nimrod and Christmas trees, Tongues, and Healing
Is Jesus the only One ever to restore sight?
What happens to people who were born and died prior to the birth of Christ?
Which is better, the King James Version or the New King James Version?
What is the minimum necessary to be saved?
How can we know whose interpretation of the Bible is right (Part 2)?
How can we know whose interpretation of the Bible is right (Part 1)?
Psalm 22:1, "My God, My God, why hast Thou forsaken Me?"
The "Mind of Christ" in 1st Corinthians 2:16
Simeon and Simon, and the two crows of the rooster
Ichthys, saints, and the Last Adam
Does Hebrews 10:26 teach loss of salvation?
Eternal security: where does one draw the line?
Who are Gog and Magog in Ezekiel 38-39?
How did John the baptist come to doubt Jesus?
Is Jesus literally seated on the throne at God's right hand?
Are the Celts the Ten Lost Tribes of Israel?
Whatever happened to the "Genesis Gap"?
"The baptism which now saves you": 1st Peter 3:21.
What type of healing is being discussed in Isaiah 53:5?
The Origin of the Four Seasons
2nd Peter 3:5: Doubting the Tribulation
A Question about Ichthys books
Biblical Metaphors and Symbolism
Faith and the Pre-Tribulational "Rapture".
Bible translation and John 8:58.
Melchizedek and the high priesthood of Christ: two questions et alia.
The centurion and the Syro-Phoenician woman.
What is "heaven" like according to Christian teachings?
1st Corinthians 11: Hats or Hair?
Confession of Sin, Fellowship, and the Filling of the Holy Spirit.
A Miscellany of Questions and Answers (Nineveh, the beast, tongues, demons, Sadam, etc.)
Some Greek Questions in the Gospels (John 1:3; 2:19; 8:58; Luke 23:43)
Is Man trichotomous, and does that mean that salvation is three-tiered?
Christ knocking at the door in Revelation 3:20
The futility of memory without God and eternal life.
The meaning of Jesus' words, "I am" in John 8:58
What does the Bible say about Heaven and Hell?
Peace in 1st Corinthians 14:33
Salvation and Church Affiliation.
Several questions on the book of Hebrews.
Does the Bible prohibit women from preaching or teaching in the Church?
Should Christian leaders refrain from drinking in public?
How to use the Bible translations at Ichthys.
The Worship of Jesus: a proof of His divinity?
An Extended Conversation about the Baptism of the Holy Spirit.
Is water baptism required for Christians today?
Are health and wealth a part of the gospel?
Will those in Hades be able to see Christ's return?
Feelings of Guilt about Remarriage.
Who are the Ten Lost Tribes of Israel?
What does "the Word was with God" mean in John 1:1-2?
Three questions on three verses in Isaiah (Is.21:4; 28:10, & 66:24).
How important is education for a pastor?
Availability and use of Ichthys materials: several questions.
Is there any difference between demons and fallen angels?
Two questions about Judas Iscariot.
Three Questions about Tattoos and Salvation.
The Hebrew word for 'one' (`echadh) and the uniqueness of God.
Did the witch of Endor really conjure up the spirit of Samuel?
A Question about the "Waters Above".
Why did God the Father wait so long to send Jesus into the world?
How does being "slain in the Spirit" relate to being baptized in the Spirit?
How do you prove the existence of God?
Where does the Bible teach that Jesus is God?
Is it ever Justifiable to Tell a Lie (part 2)?
Is the Westminster Catechism a Good Reference Tool?
What does it mean "the spirit returns to God" in Ecclesiastes 12:7?
Is there any Connection between biblical Gemstones and Moral Characteristics?
Are Miraculous Gifts Operational Today?
Jesus Christ in the Old Testament (Christophany: Gen.3:8).
Can those in organizations which teach "salvation by works" be saved?
Is "helpmeet" a wrong translation in Genesis 2:20?
Cast thy Bread upon the Waters: What do the seven and eight portions in Ecclesiastes 11:2 mean?
Was Cain Satan's literal "seed"?
The Demon Possessed Girl in Acts 16:16.
The "Sin unto Death" in 1st John 5:16.
Is death just a natural part of human life?
Communion and the Blood of Christ.
What does it mean in 1st Corinthians 7:14, "the unbelieving husband is sanctified"?
The Re-institution of the Feast of Tabernacles in the Millennium.
Secular Documentation for the Exodus.
The false doctrine of "soul sleep".
The Author of Hebrews and Jesus' Perfect Completion of His Mission.
The Trinity in Isaiah 63:10-15.
How old was Jesus at the time of His crucifixion and resurrection?
Five Smooth Stones: 1st Samuel 17:40
How can we know the Bible is true?
Habakkuk's Prosperity Prayer: Habakkuk 3:17-19.
Jeremiah 31:22: "A Woman shall Compass a Man".
The New International Version of the Bible and some issues in Bible translation.
Is "the Prophet" of Deuteronomy 18:18 Muhammad?
The One True God and the Trinity in the Old Testament.
Are those in Hebrews 6:4 who "crucify the Son of God afresh" lost?
Are New Bible Translations Part of a Conspiracy?
What exactly is the "red heifer prophecy", and how does it relate to the events of the end times?
Where did the waters of Genesis 1 go?
Sin, Baptism, and the Book of
Revelation
Tithing
and the Book of
Life
The Dangers of the Prosperity Gospel.
English and the Tower of Babel.
The "Seven Thunders" of Revelation 10:3-4
The fate of the unrighteous dead in Isaiah 66:24
Who are the "sons of the kingdom" in Matthew 18:11-12?
Why does Judah get greater honor than Jerusalem in Zechariah 12:7?
How is the date of Easter computed?
What is the meaning of the 1290 days versus the 1335 days in Daniel 12?
What Church era are we now in?
Can you explain "help my unbelief!" in Mark 9:24?
What does it mean to "overcome" in Revelation chapters 2 and 3?
Are women required to wear veils or hats in
church?
Is the world
about to come to an end?
Does the Bible ever describe the earth as being round?
Pre-, mid-, or post-Tribulation rapture?
The origin and fate of the "giants" in Genesis chapter six.
Christian suffering - Christian encouragement.
Is speaking in tongues biblical?
Can you recommend a good commentary on the book of Romans?
The recipients of Peter's epistles.
Pre- or Post-Tribulation "rapture"?
Animal sacrifice in the millennium.
Is it ever justifiable to lie?
Who
wrote the King James version?
The meaning of the
divine name יהוה.
The so-called "documentary hypothesis".
The relationship between the books of Kings and Chronicles.
David's disastrous census of Israel.
Aspects of the Unseen Angelic Warfare and 666, the Mark of the Beast.
The 200 million strong demon army of Revelation 9:13.
Deliverance through Childbearing in 1st Timothy 2:15?
Some questions about the Tribulation.
More on divorce and remarriage.
What does it mean to "remember the Sabbath and keep it holy"?
The manner of the apostle Peter's death.
Wasn't Matthias the thirteenth apostle?
Forward progress necessary for salvation and spiritual growth.
The "seven days" of human history.
1st John 1:9 and
confessing sin.
ICHTHYS and the role of traditional Christianity.
Can you recommend a good survey for the Old and New Testaments?
Where can I find more information on the "Genesis gap"?
Is Church membership an issue in salvation?
Are these materials available for purchase as books?
What is your opinion of the Abingdon one-volume Bible Commentary?
What is the significance of the number "20" in the Bible?
The 144,000 of Revelation chapters 7 and 14.
What is your view on predestination?
The chronology of the date 2026.
Does baptism play a role in being born again?
Why does the devil have access to God while man cannot stand in His presence?
The structure of the book of Revelation.
What is your view of the rapture?
What is meant by the "10 days" of Revelation
2:10?
Dragons in the Bible?
Are there apostles in the
Church today?
What is the meaning of the
word "chosen" in
the Bible.
The Passover.
What are the most common Bible
names?
What is the biblical significance
of the number forty?
What does the Bible have
to say about witchcraft?
How can I protect myself from false teaching?
Didn't the devil know he couldn't defeat God?
Are the Masons wrong according to the Bible?
Six Questions.
Can the faith of
"backsliders" be
restored?
Are there biblical origins to
mythology?
What does the phrase "sides of the pit" mean in Isaiah 14:15?
Can prayer be offered in the name of the Son?
Is it valid to celebrate Christmas?
Can you give me some information on divine names in the Bible?
What is the significance of name changes in the Bible?
Is there a "gospel of Thomas"?
Is the nature of Man
dichotomous or trichotomous?
Will the temple be rebuilt in Jerusalem?
Does the Bible teach a literal Millennium?
What does the word "good" mean in Genesis?
Who are "the dead" who "rise first" in 1st Thessalonians 4?
Are the Greek tenses in John 7:34 correctly translated?
Is the devil "mad" to oppose God?
Does the Bible require supporting
the pastor
financially?
How
can Jesus be a man
and God at the same time?
How did people
atone for intentional sin
in Old Testament times?
What is the symbolism of the
Lamb of God in Revelation?
Can you recommend some word study tools for Bible study?
Can people who commit suicide be saved?
What is the difference between wisdom and discernment?
Marriage of Believers and Unbelievers.
Is hearing believing in John 6:35?
Is Paul describing himself in Romans chapter seven?
Is tithing required for salvation?
What is the evidence for the "rapture"?
Is there any validity to the "prosperity gospel"?
Who are the "Nephilim" in Genesis chapter six?
What does the Bible have to say about reincarnation?
Believing the Bible for Spiritual Growth.
Why was the New Testament written in Greek?
What about those who have never heard of Christ?
What about elders and deacons?
Eternal Security and "sinless perfection".
Eternal Security and "salvation by works".
Does the Bible teach ex nihilo
creation?
When did Jesus first know He
was God's Son?
Are there prophets today?
How could Christ have been three days and
nights in
the grave?
Do Muslims worship the One true
God?
What can I do about spiritual fainting?